I just wanted to offer some hope. I've had HSV2 for about 10 years and HSV1 most of my life. I've disclosed to 8 relationships of all varying levels, and only 1 did not accept all of me (and that was the most recent). I also honestly feel it was because I disclosed too late in the relationship. There is a balance and way to disclose, and I've used all of H opportunity resources to learn how. The hardest part is just doing it and at the right time, not too soon and not too late. I know it's easy to say, and I don't know if this is any consolation, but if you are great person and match for someone, they will accept you. Dig through the "no" to learn it was just not a good fit, and it's better to find out before you are intimate and sharing a life with someone rather than later. I really did buy into this an opportunity to screen out the people we should be saying no to.