CofA says: To me, my sexual health is more important than my relationship with a woman. It just is. Love and relationships are secondary . . .
Honestly, as an H+ woman I found @CityofAngels viewpoint very helpful. I just went through a disclosure with a man whom I dated for six weeks, we had a strong connection and liked each other very much. When I disclosed recently, it was unfortunately a dealbreaker. This was very hard for me due to the connection and intense feelings we shared, and difficult for me to understand because of that. Was it that easy for him to turn his feelings off? But CofA's comments helped me to see that there are differing viewpoints, and even though we may not understand them, they are not wrong at all, just simply different, and right for them. And I have to have respect for that.