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Cleopatra1

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  1. Amazed to get all these really helpful, kind responses...thank you all. I will reach out to him once more. Its interesting and reassuring to learn I'm shedding a lot more because its so new and it won't always be the case. I'm fortunate I'm not in loads of pain like at the start...its so subtle some days I can't even be sure what's happening and at what stage so I have to be safer than sorry
  2. I am no doubt stressed a lot lately. And I'm generally a bit anxious unfortunately, that's just me. I also have an under active thyroid but that's under control with daily meds. Could well be a link. I could try yoga, I enjoyed that.
  3. Hi ladies, thank you for feedback. I'm not on anti vitals, I tried it briefly and thought I was allergic because my hands were swelling, however that has continued so it can't be that and I want to try again. Yes, bought lysine last week, so we shall see. Does it help a lot of people? I read good reviews on Amazon. Also, vitamin b, d and zinc with copper....
  4. Hi Dancer, yes there is some heat and redness, and other areas look very white in comparison, such as the knuckles. Its very weird, its just my right hand. I'm not aware of gland near the handhand but I'm looking into it. Thanks x
  5. I'm loving this thread. I've been in turmoil all week after giving it to a guy I was dating accidentally- momentary contact..I was so drunk. I told him I had herpes the next week and he accepted it but after that sexual encounter so still wrong way round.Then he got ill and we just knew he'd caught it. So now he hates me. I hadn't considered his role in having unprotected contact with a very drunk girl on a first date. We were really attracted to one another, but that means nothing to him now. Just that he's infected now too and must blame someone. Entirely me. :-(
  6. Hi all, I caught hsv2 3 months ago and think I've been in a cycle of OBs and the build up to one non stop. Plus healing takes ages. Has anyone suffered like that but gone on to get better? I really don't want it to be chronic. I read 4-6 OBs in first year is typical, not this! Thanks
  7. Hi Positively beautiful, thank you so much for replying. You are right, we both need time. He has said he has caught it..I'm certain he does sadly. Just worried he's not going to cope or talk anyone. I might just let him know I'm here for him and leave it alone. So yeah, new approach to my love life. Cannot be careless, I never want to do this to anyone again, or feel this anguish. The sad truth is its very contagious, I hadn't realised just how so and I couldn't ever tell a person they'd be safe from it even if we followed best practice. This poor guy has caught it after a moments contact when I had no symptoms at that point. I felt a very sore throat the next few day though and had cold symptoms. Is that a prodrome to an OB?
  8. Hey, does anyone else have swollen fingers and joint pain there since contracting H. I can pinpoint that's when it started and comes and goes. In two fingers particularly. Not developed any big sores touch wood, but have had minute red dots and a blister once one a finger which I'm guessing could be H? I stopped aciclovar initially thinking it was an allergic reaction. I regret TT that as it have helped me and I now still have swelling and OB!!
  9. Hello, this is a great idea, I'm in. I'm actually in England though...anyone else? Email support is fine too. I'm female 31, hsv2 for 2 months
  10. Hi all, my first post on here. Was diagnosed with h2 2 months ago, after having unprotected sex with someone I'd known 13 years. I trusted him. 4 days later I'm in a bad way and diagnosed with it after swabs. He denies knowing at first but then says he had suspicion s. I forgave him, I took a risk and I paid. So hard to accept and I'm run down all the time, had 2 or 3 OBs, I can't really tell when its active. Fast forward 2 months, I met a great guy. We stupidly momentarily had unprotected sex although I didn't remember and he assured me we used protection. A few days later I see a bump, so avoid intimacy, and have the chat with him. He was kind and asked as. He saw me again after that but has flu symptoms. I warn him that's I how started. He says he needs space. Ignores my msgs the but today he does have it. I should have told him before we had sex. And I knew I was having an OB..which I didn't know! He's angry, says he can't trust me now. Im going with worry and guilt. I never would want to hurt him. We really each other. I'm so sad and don't want to let him go. Any advice? Does he just need time or am I bad person. I'm still getting my heard around it myself, now this!
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