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  1. We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience-Pierre Teilhard de Chardon What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. -Ralph Waldo Emerson If you want your life to be a magnificent story,then begin by realizing that you are the author and everyday you have the opportunity to write a new page. -Mark Houlihan My personal favorite: Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain. -Vivian Greene
  2. Thanks dancer! Working on taking better care of me. Too easy to over compensate. Starting to realize I've been doing that for far too long. As if I have something to make up for, huh? Better late than never.
  3. Hey everybody! I'm looking for an H buddy as well. I'm a 53 year old mom from Indiana. Diagnosed about 33 years ago. Spent most of that time with nobody to talk to about it. Hoping if I can help someone else, I just might help myself. If you need moral support and a good listener, I'm your girl.
  4. Thanks Fitgirl! If sharing my experiences and mistakes helps someone else, then I'm happy to do it.
  5. It was 1983 and I was 21 years old. I had barely even heard of herpes and BAM! My current bf at the time tells me that he has it and I gave it to him. Poor guy, to say I didn't take it well was an understatement. Local planned parenthood confirmed it. I was devastated. I told only my immediate family at first. They were supportive but as clueless as I was. Eventually, I turned to my friends. I use that term loosely because I was soon to find out how few friends I actually had. Reactions varied from stony silence (until my back was turned) to full on hostility. Then I met someone who seemed willing to accept me. Big mistake, he turned out to be very abusive and it took 3 years for me to break the hold he had on me. After all, who's gonna want me? That's what I thought anyway. I figured I was better off on my own. I ended up moving to another town to escape the whole mess. After that first outbreak there was nothing for years. Any irritation was minor and easily denied. Later meet and married again.( Better guy this time) still no problems with H until the past year or so. My husband and I have grown apart. Raised our son together but lived pretty much separate lives for the past 10 years. Then he gets hurt and and it's surgeries, IV's and dressing changes constantly. I'm a nurse so I can handle that, right? It's been a year of working 24/7 and our lovely friend has re-emerged with a vengeance! I found this website about a week ago, and what a relief to find the acceptance and support I see on here. This is my first post but I've been reading and learning so much. For all of you who are newly diagnosed, don't give up! If I had found something like this 33 years ago I could have avoided so much pain and hopefully some of the mistakes. It's taken me a long time to face it. If there's one thing you need to remember, it's that you are the same person you were before and if somebody treats you differently, you don't need them! You're worth just as much to this world as they are! Don't settle for less than you want or deserve. Ever!
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