@alittlemad Hi there...I am in the same situation as you. I was dx with HSV1 via blood work so i dont' know where I have it. This all started after being with a new partner. I experienced a lot of vaginal problems such as re-occurring yeast infections, VB, etc... I have never actually had a real outbreak genitally, so doctors can't diagnose it as HSV. My Gyno is convinced I have HSV1 orally because I often complain of mouth blisters so she says it's HSV1 but I've never had any of them swabbed as they do not have liquid (they're just tinny little bumps), but I do get the pre-symptoms (tingly and itchy feeling on my lips) but I have never had a cold sore on my lips. I do however get blisters in my mouth almost every month.
Back to my genitals - I've had a series of problems since having oral sex with a new partner last year (hence my HSV test). I truly believe I have genital HSV1 but can't get a doctor to diagnose me. I have symptoms every month after my period (usually a week after finishing period) burning sensation, severe itching, and discharge (that last about 2 weeks) and then it goes away. This happens every month. Sometimes it's very severe sometimes it's mild, but after going to the doctor so many times and being told it's nothing, I've given up and just cope with the problem. I do also get the papercut symptoms and sometimes feel the cut after sex but it's only happened a few times.
After doing tons of research and reading tons of post, I've accepted the fact that it could or could NOT be HSV1. The fact is I have it somewhere but I'll never know where until I get a real lesion to get it swabbed.
I know this probably doesn’t bring comfort to you, but I wanted to let you know you are not alone.