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  1. Awww thank you! And same for you too. Mine clears up a bit in a spot then moves else where :( it never goes away!! It's been a week and it seems to get better and heal then I look and it's moved again :p frustrating!
  2. Oh I'm glad you liked my post :D I figure its awesome getting help and venting to people who understand what it's like to be in this situation but it's nice to see some positivity drawn from it too lol. And I'm sorry to hear about the divorce hun :(
  3. For sure I understand where you're coming from and I appreciate the advice :) it is a good point because he was tested just when we were first together but it might not have made an appearance on a test yet. I know I probably haven't made the best impression of him but he's actually a good guy. I knew him since high school as a friend. I know it's not right for him to think that way and we're not on speaking terms yet but I'm 99.9% sure it was my ex.
  4. Thanks ladies :) that puts me much more at ease. I just wasn't sure what the responsible thing would be to do. Looks like one way I'm gonna de-stress is with a massage ;) after the pain and my outbreak is gone lol for now I'm hibernating.
  5. To this day he still claims that he didn't give it to me and maybe I cheated on him.. What a winner right? I would never, never have and never will cheat. I just realized too late how full of crap he was
  6. My ex was a lieing and cheating ass. I just had no idea he would cheat but also put me at risk.
  7. Cause my last partner cheated on me and was on tinder. I caught him using it and he admitted he did and it's cause he was "insecure". I noticed I didn't quite feel the same in the middle of that relationship but assumed it was just sensitivity or something. And my current bf got chlamydia from me from my last relationship cause I had no signs and my doctor assumed from looking at me that I was in the clear.
  8. Oh good one :D I was floundering for an excuse and all I could think of was my leg muscles were spasming lol!
  9. Hi there :) Maybe if I humanize myself a bit more you might feel like you're not alone. My actual name is Erica Smith. I am 21 going to be 22 as of October 15th. I live in Ottawa and I still live with my parents and brother. I'm currently trying to tell my brother about my recent diagnoses ( 5 ) days now. I found out from having symptoms of my first outbreak. It is a little scary not gonna lie and days I feel numb and others I feel like a mess. But I'm realizing that I lived for months without noticing and felt completely myself. And I will continue to feel like myself :) I've only told 3 friends who have been extremely supportive and treat me no less different than before. Your sister must just be uninformed about H. Get her to research a bit about it and she'll realize that even having sex with someone carrying H without protection is not a guarantee way to contract it. My boyfriend and I just found out I have it from my first symptoms of showing. He is currently getting retested but he showed up as negative the first time he was tested when we were together and having an active sex life. This is not the end of the world hun :) it's annoying but manageable. You just gotta be smart with dealing with outbreaks and take medication at it's earliest signs. I figured that out after my window of taking it lol but I'm handling it. If you want to communicate a little more personally add me on fb :) I have a short brown pixie cut with dark purple lips and my cousin to my right of the picture with blonde hair. Message me if you think it's me saying "hey Missy" it's my nickname :) I would love to talk especially since we're in the same boat and pretty much the same age as well :) hope to hear from you soon!
  10. That's a huge relief to hear :) I'm just very cautious of spreading it to anyone because I'd never forgive myself. I'm not embarrassed or ashamed to have it and I would openly say I carry H if someone asked I just don't want to make someone nervous around me because of the unfortunate stigma.
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