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Autumna

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  1. Ajmj3726, I feel ya... I was in the same boat, married for 20 years never had to have the "talk" and I have been single for a year now and let me tell you it does get easier!! So far I have never been rejected, but I have just recently met someone who was fine at first but just can't seem to get past it! but I know its for a reason, he is not the one... good luck and this is the best website, I am so thankful for it and just when you think you know all there is to know about h, nope. lol I am more confident now that I have found this page and don't stress if I have to have the "talk" because I have answers at my finger tips... good luck A
  2. Adrial, this is perfect!! I will be printing off one of each, and if I ever have to have "the talk" again I will be ready :) I wish this info was available when I was first found out about h, but no worries it's here now all is good.. keep up the good work. A
  3. Katie, Thank you so much!! I gave him this web address and told him to do his own research also. I want him to feel safe and don't want to spread it but want to have a normal sex life if there is one? I pretty much had the answers I just wanted to see them all at once in one place.. Lol Again thank you made my day :-) Autumn
  4. This is a great idea :-) thank you Adrial for this. I don't really need someone who lives near me just someone to chat with about it! Im 42 proud navy mom :) and new to dating with hsv. I do live in Oregon if that helps... Life is great no "Debbie downer here" lol
  5. Hi I'm new but new to h. I am new to dating and for about a year I have been in the closet about this. So I have had my disclosure and all went well.... But he has questions that I don't have the answers to off the top of my head! So I'm turning to you fine folks for advise. My story I have had h for about 20 years been married in a monogamous that whole time (we both had it) we didn't have to worry about it much. Now single and dating don't give full details unless I think the person has potential to be someone special... So now I have met someone and had the talk and all was good till about a few days after we had sex! He freaked out and was scared and went to the clinic and was tested and all is good. But.... He can't get over how he felt and is torn because he says he likes me enough to be with me and is scared that if he gets it and we don't work out then he is stuck with it! I totally get it and gave him the lets go our separate ways and call it good before we get to involved... Problem we are falling for each other and want to make it work... Here are my/our crazy question What are the odds of him getting it, I take anti-viral, have had it for 20 years, don't get outbreaks, shedding few times a year, if that I have acne can it be spread that way if your kissing Can we have safe sex without condoms Can you pass in everyday living. Drinking from cups, eating off forks? I kiss my son every time I see him shared food he does not have it How often should he get tested Can you shed without the typical symptoms Can he get it on his fingers if he is touching me.. No outbreak at the time If he took antiviral's daily will that reduce his risk Should showering before and after help How long does the virus live outside of the body I have wet orgasms, can he get it if like the sheets are wet? Is it in my vaginal secretions? If I'm not having an outbreak or shedding can we have oral we This is so much but I really need the answers, I really like this guy and could see my self with him for a long time Oh ya his mother has M.S. and lives in the house will I give it to her with everyday living? I don't think so but want to know from someone else.. I have read everything and even took him with me to my gyno dr awkward.. But that's how much we want to make this work. Thanks for reading sorry if they are stupid questions but I have to know :-) A
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