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Your mom probably guilty about something but it ain't your problem. You do you.

Your mom is trolling you. "Girls Gine Wild"? She's basically saying if you didn't have herpes you'd be a massive slut? Dang mom, not very nice. Like most people, it sounds like your mom is ignorant to the reality of what herpes is. She doesn't sound like she knows the facts. Herpes isn't a big deal. More importantly, your sex life is none of her business. She's probably jealous that she isn't as young and attractive as she used to be or as you are or something. It doesn't matter. Anyway, relax and enjoy your life. We aren't here forever and herpes so common that 4/5 people on the planet have it. Also, you can still "girls gone wild" with herpz. I've had rampant casual sex and threesome etc, all with disclosure and herpes.

It's actually less than if you had it in your mouth because it's not as active as cold sores. So if he kissed someone with cold sores he'd be more likely to get that HSV1 in his mouth than if he ate you out.

With all due respect, FatalSorrow represents a smidgen of people who get intense symptoms. He doesn't seem to understand what "giving" herpes to most people means. Unless he is a shill for the pharmaceutical industry, and is trying to drum up hysteria. Most people get zero symptoms. herpes isn't a big big deal

Yes def get some medicine. Why not?

What you are experiencing is super rare. Don't let HSV1 stop you from kissing people. The majority of people alive have cold sores. Seriously. You are blowing it out of proportion. Separate your own experience from what the reality is for pretty much everyone else. It's important to stick with the facts and not get overrun by emotion.

Relax if you don't have it you might get it in the future and it a ain't a big deal.

2 of the most common things you can get if you've slept with more than three people. Congrats- you aren't a nun. Pretty much everyone has HPV, and there's almost no way to tell who unless you actually have the warts. Then they go away or come back. It's just a non-issue for the most part. Herpes doesn't even have any cancer pontential and it's slightly less common, but pretty much in the same ball park as far as how pervasive it is. These two "diseases" are like the scouts' badges that says you aren't a hermit.

You are like the Virgin Mary of herpes. Your wife probably has it if you've never dipped your wick elsewhere and you have genital HSV 2. Unless someone bumped uglies with you when you were sleeping.

Get some meds like Valtrex. You are going to be fine. Herpes isn't a big deal. Don't make a bigger thing out of it than it actually is.

That is my dating love life since diagnosis. 7/8 is about right, but again there are some rejections. I stil have options. Truth is that most girls don't seem to care in my experience because I don't make a bigger deal about herpes than it needs to be. You are proof in that moment that it's ok- your confidence demonstrates that ain't no thang. Yeah it's a shock that first couple weeks to get this thing, but it's mostly just amental shock for most people. In your case you had a bad reaction.

Yep. I tell them that exactly. I break it down how I lay it out and I say what I say at each step in my thread called ladies' man herpes success stories. When it's clear that we are definitely going to have sex, I tell them I want to tell them something. Then I say I have herpes and immediately ask them if they know anything about it. That's the thing- most people either don't know anything about it or have the wrong info on it. So you will probably have to correct the info for them. That said, I've had a lot of girls who are like "you don't have a break out right? Ok, let's use a condom." I've had girls who are even ok with not using a confirm after a couple rounds of boning. Sorry to hear that you got a bad outbreak. It really is rare to get it that bad. A lot of the people who will come to this site are the rare exceptions of people with bad outbreaks looking for info. It makes herpes look like an overall nightmare but the truth is that most people get zero symptoms. So even if you passed it on to someone, they aren't likely to manifest symptoms as badly as you. So don't get worked up with guilt and dread about passing it on. Your first outbreak is usually the worst and then maybe you will get a few more and most people don't get many. Get on some Valtrex. There is a silver lining to herpes though- it can act like an early warning system in some ways. If you tend to go out and party and drink and wear your body down, that's when herpes is likely to act up. In that sense, it actually puts you more in touch with and makes you more aware of your immune system. Like an immune system dashboard. Or if you aren't dealing with some emotional issue directly and try to hide it, herpes might act up. It forces you to ne more honest about what your are feeling. Herpes can can nudge you to stay more healthy in general mentally and physically. Another silver lining is that having herpes can help motivate you to maximize all you le attractive qualities. You want o be able to come with confidence to a girl. Truth is that there will be somemrejections, but that's ok and normal - even without herpes there are rejections for a wide variety of reasons. Herpes Ian just one other reason, and I'd say 7/8 of my sexual encounters the girls give me a green light. Confidence is about having an abundance mindset and not worrying about whether or not some girl rejects you. There are many more fish in the sea.

Ruiner your sex life isn't over. It will be regardless of herpes if you take a defeatist attitude like that because no woman is attracted to that shit. Anyway, I've had sex like 70 chicks after getting diagnosed about two years ago. All disclosures. Don't use having herpes as an excuse to wallow in self-pity. Colds are incurable too, but people don't cry about the condition of "getting colds". You'll get over it. Work out, get your lifestyle, game , fashion, etc together and don't scape goat the having herpes thing. It really isn't a big deal.

Sorry to hear about your mother. Ok so you are dealing with other heavy things in your life that aren't related to herpes. It's important, as hard as it may seem, to separate these things. Also, you are new herpes- that means you are in shock more because you don't understand the facts about it yet. It's not anywhere near as bad as you think. But don't take my word for it, read up on all the facts and you will see that it isn't a big deal. Hang in there, your perspective on herpes will improve. It's a lot of stuff to deal with at once - passing of family. You will pull through this time stronger. I promise.

Yeah well half the new cases of genital herpes in England come from people with a history of "cold sores" giving head to their partners. That's on par with or maybe more than genital hsv2 being passed around. The legality of everything herpes is very tenuous. Another example of weak legality with regards to herpes is being able to prove who gave it to whom. They need to just remove it from the legal all together.

Yea Dave is right the funny thing is that genital HSV1 is even less active than oral HSV1 but you legally still have to disclose if you got genital whereas oral just gets called "cold sores" and there is no legal issue. It's probably much easier to give someone genital HSV1 if you "get cold sores" on your lip and go down on them than it would be if you had genital HSV1 and fucked them. And, almost everybody has gets sores.

While gettting a herpes diagnosis isn't exactly great news it isn't really bad news either. It's just a fact of life for 4/5 people on the planet. It's like "You have herpes? Welcome to the human race."

Sorry to hear that Ruiner. It's unfortunate that you are not only in the small 20% minority of people who get symptoms, but the even tinier group of those people who have strong symptoms. They will likely subside over time.

Knowing your herpes status isn't even that important. The government recommends against testing. I say it's a good to know what your status is with herpes anyway, but it's not a big deal. It's not anywhere near as important as something like knowing if you have cancer or not or whether or not you have bad posture etc.

I've said it before and I'll say it again- if a guy is going to sleep with you and then ghost over herpes, he's probably not reliable for a long term thing anyway. And that has nothing to do with her herpes as everything to do with his inconsistency and emotional thinking. Truth is anyone who has a clear picture about what herpes is will realize how not a big deal it is. It's only those base their actions off of emotions instead of reality that will reject after knowing the facts. And do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who is essentially on a par with a child who believes in the bogeyman even though he knows it isn't real?

If it helps- most people a lot less outbreaks as time goes by. So Like the first year will probably be the most. Why did you stop taking the meds? Also, your perspective on having it will mature over time so keep that in mind.

The truth will set you free. Most people don't know much about herpes at all. Then someone gets it and there's all this info they take in about it. They realize that they didn't really know much about it before. That's part of the marketing campaign/stigma- to keep people iconfused or in a fog about what herpes is. They just hear words like "incurable" which sounds scary. But having an incurable thing that doesn't even cause symptoms for 80% who have it isn't a big deal. And those that do get symptoms usually have like one outbreak or something mild and then they don't get symptoms again.

Bro don't blow this out of proportion. You know that 4/5 people in the world have herpes, right? It doesn't stop the boots from getting knocked. Don't crave drama. Stigma preys on people's penchant for wanting drama in their lives. The herpes stigma is one of the greatest hoax advertising scams of all time. You get trolled while pharmaceutical companies make heaps of money. Also, girls can make up their own minds. A lot of them have it and don't even know or don't disclose. It's up you as a man to put your foot down and say "I'm not going to submissive to an ad campaign." And take the initiative and own your shit. You tell you got herpes. If she says she doesn't care, that's her choice. If she wants more info you can give her info. This is 2017, women can make their own life choices. If she want to fuck you, that's up to her. Respect that. It's up to us guys to get the wheels moving on disclosing because most girls are too afraid to do it. You may disagree with me now, but you are new to this. When you get more info, you will understand that herpes is not a big deal at all.

Your sex life is not over. By a long shot. In fact it is just beginning in some ways. Check out my ladies' man herpes disclosure success thread. I've disclosed and slept with over 70 girls in recent years.

You don't take cipro for herpes.