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Please dont assume anything. I dont understand if is really rare that you can Pass the H2 to to mouth, Then Would that mean that if you have a Blowjob and you have Genital Herpes, there might be a chance that you dont pass it?

I got my lab results H1 Negative ( after unprotected sex started October 9 and Ended in October 31). 6 weeks of last encounter, 9 weeks of first encounter. The test Is a Igg test. How much percent accurate is after 9 weeks first enconuter and 6 weeks of last enconter? Also If you have a oral herpes and have cold sores in your mouth can sometimes be cause by herpes 2, even in a small percentage?

jajajajjaaj thanks for that feedback. The possibility of maybe having H, has make think about a lot stuff about my sexuality and how to came with the chance of open realtionships, with boundries of course, lots and lots of boundries. Well Ill refrase, its more easy to have H, if you leave in some parts of the east coast or west coast. There would be no Ellen Dawson in Fayetville Arkansas, believe me!!!

If I have H, I would date people with H. Otherwise It would be nerveracking!!!!

Well.... Lets say I broke out with my girlfriend...Hope to good not. I go back to Colombia. Theres and ( h) opportunity website? Theres literature on how to disclosed, how to date? Theres H communities like in the States? No. Its a fact. In the U.S, there is more a support system than Colombia!!!! Plus I come from a smal town in Bogota where everybody knows each other. Here in the states I live in south california, theres plenty of places to go, plenty of people to see, more people with H, more chances to have dates. If ( lets hope not) broke out with my girlfriend i would start date people with my same h condition, so we can have sex without condoms. I dont like them.

of course not, right? I lose her and turns out I dont have herpes.

I am going to Sleep/ Thank you, writing about this had put my fear out and I feel not alone. However, you need to understand that tell the absolute truth would be awfull, especially on Christmas. If, if I choose to tel her I cheated I am going to say, I was drunk ( colombians drink a lot) and had a one night stand and never used protection. I was so guity the other day that I contact her, because I didnt remember anything. She told me she was on the pill and that she had herpes. Since I deal with my generalised anxiety disorder I would read this to her the first day me see each other. That she might forgive. But if I tell her, you know, we have serious sexual issues. You are so sweet, so nurture and so childlike sometimes, that our love is a puppy, a little bit oedipues love, and theres a lot of thinks that we need to improve. Thats why I hook up with a girl who I had better sexual quimestry and thats all, beause as a Human being is a piece of shit, and have an affair with her with two weeks, having sex with her, knowing that she was having herpes. Would you suggest than and maybe not lose her?

U.S has tons of people. Southamerica countries dont. So its more difficul to have sex if you have herpes outside de U.S/ because if the stigma in the us is bigger, imagine in Southamerican countries or the rest of the world, were its really hard to be out of the closet, for lack of a better word about the h thing/

Ok. If you were in my shoes, in detail, what would you say? If I lose her and after 3 months it turns out to be I dont have anything, what I am going to do? We need to educate more about the H issue. I remember when she told me she had herpes, I say I dont have a condom, lets not do it. And she told me I am not Breaking out. I though that was good enough. I resent her so much, I dont wanna even see her. I still dont understand how can her boyfriend had unprotected sex from time to time. Her mom told me: " If you havent have an outbreak yet, its more than possible than you dont have it" Its like two realities. On the web the danger of herpes and in real life, everyone has less paranoia.

interestin conversation

Part of me, acts like I had already herpes. Part of me doesnt!!!! Thank God for this Forum!!!!

Would you suggest that If I came Postive tomorrow with herpes 1 I tell her That it was a routine exam and that maybe it can be from past relationships and that there is a risk if we had sex with condoms? The problem there would be that if in 3 months it shows that I dont have anything and H2 and H1 negative, how can I tell her that the results were wrong. I want to give it a shoot with this girl. Even thoug we dont have a great sex quimestry ( Handjobs are ok, blowjobs are ok) , she is a companion. She is somebody I can count on and she can count on me. The exitment of an affair, being that I am a late bloomer, and the stupid macho pride, posses me with the exitmente of an affair with an American Woman. Is not that I am a compulsive cheater. This is the first time I have an Affair.

When they do a test on blisters on your genitals, It that tells you if you have Herpes 1 or Herpes 2? My " friend" tells me that she was not tested for herpes 1, because she didnt hade symthoms in the mouth, she was tested for the genitals, assuming that the test in the genitals was for herpes 2.

Can I legally sue my friend for not let me Know is she has Herpes 1 or Herpes 2? You are assuming that I have Herpes. So far the test for Herpes 2 negative. Waiting for the result of Herpes 1. I don't want to ruin our vacation. I dont want to tell her that I cheated. If I have Herpes 1 can that we a good way to avoid sex with her. I can tell her that I could had that before. If Herpes 1 is negative, then I dont have any excuse. Long distance relationships are really hard. I dont know what to do.

I don't want to justify my actions. But is really hard to be in a long distance realtionship. I swear if she says to me that she cheated on me I would forgive her. I am in a way a little bit open to open relationships, with boundries of course. Also I dont want to know anything about sex right know. I dont like condoms that much and sometimes dont work them correctly. Maybe there can be a way to avoid sex all together. We saw each other last summer, so I dont know!!!