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  1. I actually just had the exact same thing happen except I don't take Valtrex. I took pictures every day since I noticed it and scheduled an appointment with my doctor. My doc was very nice and assured me it was just a pimple especially after I showed him the pictures. I waited until he was done looking and diagnosing to show pictures and bring up my concerns and we did have a nice conversation about H as well. Do you know what your typical symptoms are? I believe outbreaks follow a pattern once you've determined what your symptoms are. I popped mine and made it look awful so you're probably better off leavin it alone. Sit in a hot bath 15 mins twice a day. If that makes it better it's probably just a pimple. The only way to know for sure is to see a doctor though!
  2. I'm just really agitated because my symptoms don't add up and the doctor doesn't have any openings earlier. I've been taking daily pictures myself but I'm afraid it will be too late for accuracy in diagnosis. I've also been poking and scratching at the site so I don't know if I made it worse or what. I have been blood tested as HsV1 but no idea where. I have a sore right now on my lady bits with no itch, no pain, no anything.
  3. I'm kind of nervous. I have a doctor's appointment Wednesday but I only have a single bump and they couldn't fit me in sooner. If it isn't H, great, but if it is, I want help getting rid of it efficiently. -.-
  4. I feel you, and I want to hug you so hard. I think its fantastic that you told him at all, to be honest. There are doctors who tell H+ patients that disclosing isn't necessary. Your ex seems to be uneducated about H and for him to make you feel that bad about having it only further proves he has the title of "Ex" for a reason. You say you know you are beautiful and smart, but you really need to believe that in your heart. Have you tried discussing H and the impact it has (or rather, has not) had on your life? Taking time to talk about things in advance can help a great deal and always allow the other person time to get a handle on the situation. Many people have had success with this approach.
  5. I wish I could think of a better title for this thread, but I had to vent about the lack of material out there. I know this is already an obvious statement, but I mean I really wish there was a collection of actual images of sores and lesions to look at. I am still struggling with identifying symptoms and determining if I have GHSV or Oral. I had a bump appear this weekend and the best resource I have found is reddit. And even at that, reddit is full of people asking "Is this herpes?" with everyday users giving yes and no responses encouraging formal doctor appointments and then there is no conclusive answer afterwards. I also understand that this is a very private matter and not everyone wants to have their private bits shared on the internet. I just think this would be so helpful, especially since everyone has such mixed reactions.
  6. My doctor gave me the test without grief but nobody called me for my results. I called them and got the info through a nurse practitioner who basically said "well you did come back positive for Hsv-1" and I asked "the one that typically causes cold sores?" She said yes and then we mutually hung up. So... Nothing there. I have been fitting pieces together and trying to make sense of symptoms. Ugh. Thrush, eh? I've had bacterial vaginosis in the past but I don't recall having the rash like outbreak. I'll look into it, but my irritation has finally cleared up some. There are still some spots but it's not as bad. Thanks!
  7. Thanks legal07. I'm not sure if it is or is not comforting. I have a history of abuse so I can't recall when my pelvic issues even officially started. When I requested my full std panel with HSV my doc laughed and told me I had one of the healthiest looking areas he's seen. His words never comforted me, especially after I got my results back. With both responses so far it almost has me feeling that it could just be oral. I just know I still get a lot of discomfort down there and I've been to two different practices. :(
  8. I am not positive of the location. I only had a blood test done which showed type 1. I just know I have a chronic itch and irritation down there. I've changed to cotton undies only and it hasn't made a big difference. I've had a blister or two in my mouth but on the inside and I thought Hsv was on the outside only. I don't recall the blisters being painful or crusting either orally. I've heard others say that herpes lesions do not have pus or anything inside if you try to pop or scratch them. Is that true?
  9. Agreed. I was afraid to join but I think the outlet is good for the soul. Especially since discussing the issue in person is still unpleasant.
  10. From what I understand, you should not be having herpes symptoms every day. They should come and go. Unfortunately a doctor is the best person to consult for medical advice. My experience with this virus has been tame for the most part and I am sorry to hear you are that uncomfortable regardless if it is Herpes or not. If you had multiple blood tests taken, I imagine the doctor is aware of the pain and rash going on? It seems odd that they aren't looking at other conditions. You mentioned that you both had paperwork. Did that paperwork show testing for herpes? If you both only had basic STD testing done, herpes was most likely not included in the results.
  11. That is great that you guys could remain supportive of one another! Focusing on positives definitely helps. There also seem to be a lot of great people available on this forum.
  12. I can totally relate to what you are going through. I hope today you are feeling better! I am with you on not being able to tell what is herpes and what is not. I have never had typical symptoms of HSV, but I have had a chronic itch and red spots occasionally. I can't help but feel like I have always been infectious. I think the worst thing to do is stay in a negative mood. I also have a partner who is H- that I worry about, but I think if I were to show my anxieties and fears with him constantly he would eventually become afraid and walk away. Because we know we are H+ we know what steps we can take to prevent the spread. Our partners are safer with us. I think I would feel worse if my partner left me because I pushed him away and got it somewhere else.
  13. Hello everyone - I've been scrolling through this forum regularly for a few months. I have gone pretty far back in the history of posts and I have been keeping current for at least the last two months. So when you are discouraged that people aren't necessarily responding to your posts, please know that you are still helping others feel human. I just got my official diagnosis in March of this year, although I am 99% positive I have had this at least 4 years from a cheating boyfriend. I went to my OB after I realized standard tests do not cover HSV and I have had a chronic itch for what seems like forever. Lo and behold, HSV1, and what I can only logically believe to be of the genital variety. Like I said, I have been doing my research and I am comfortable with the diagnosis, for the most part. It still sucks but its not the end of the world. I want to ask a few things though that I am having trouble searching specifically for. -- How long do your GHSV1 outbreaks last about? I shaved my lady bits before 4th of July weekend, I got my period on Friday and I generally have sensitive skin. To be honest, I have NO IDEA what an outbreak is supposed to look or feel like. I don't remember having a primary outbreak as described by many others. The only thing I remember is having one large bump. -- Speaking of bumps, when you have recurrent OBs, do they typically follow a pattern? I believe the single bump was my primary, however, what I am experiencing this week is almost like a rash throughout the whole upper part of my pubic area. I'll start with this for now and I am happy to finally be a part of the conversation.
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