I think genital infections are worse than oral just because there are more things to irritate the area. (Friction, heat/sweat, etc).
As for her getting a genital outbreak, it's possible, but pretty rare from what I understand. I haven't ever seen stats on genital to genital transmission of HSV1. If anything, you are at a greater risk of picking it up orally from her than her getting it genitally from you. I think at this point in the relationship, if you haven't picked it up, you probably won't, unless something happens to someones immune system.
My husband has it orally, I have it genitally. We are pretty sure he is my giver. (sometimes you just don't know). We have never used antivirals (except for my last few weeks of pregnancy) or any other protection other than avoiding the areas during an outbreak. He has never had a genital outbreak, I've never had an oral one (17 years later).
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Thank so much for taking the time to help. It seems like our situation is similar. I've scheduled an appointment with my Dr to discuss this further. I'll be sure to follow-up and post my doctors thoughts on the subject. Thanks again.
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