Hi all! Ive had HSV1 since I was 19, I'm now 27. I've only disclosed 3 times, and only 1 has turned me down. I'm in a position now where I've met a really great guy, but he is one of those people that kind of joke about herpes. Not all the time, but there have been a few times where he has brought it up in casual conversation as a joke. Is this someone I want to disclose to?! I mean, he really is great and I like him a lot, but I also do not want to tell him if he is going to make a joke out of it! Anyone ever deal with this? Any help would be much appreciated!!!