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Marie89

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  1. Hi all! Ive had HSV1 since I was 19, I'm now 27. I've only disclosed 3 times, and only 1 has turned me down. I'm in a position now where I've met a really great guy, but he is one of those people that kind of joke about herpes. Not all the time, but there have been a few times where he has brought it up in casual conversation as a joke. Is this someone I want to disclose to?! I mean, he really is great and I like him a lot, but I also do not want to tell him if he is going to make a joke out of it! Anyone ever deal with this? Any help would be much appreciated!!!
  2. Hello all! So I have HSV II. I've had this going on 8 years now. A couple months ago I started dating this really great guy. We have known eachother a while, and he is just everything I could ask for. I've prolonged the talk obviously for fear of rejection. But now I'm afraid that I've waited too long. I've developed very strong feelings for him and if he is not ok with my situation, I'm going to be completely devasted. On the other hand, I'm aware that allowing him to develop feelings for me without knowing my whole situation may not have been the best idea. I've only had to have "the talk" one other time and it was cringe worthy. My whole issue is that I find it very hard to say "I have herpes" to anyone. Let alone someone I care about. Does anyone have any advice for me? I really don't want to go into this conversation an emotional mess. Thanks!
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