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vintagedisposition

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  1. Thank you so mcuh for your words. I cant tell you how happy I was to read a response. This is the first time I have spoken to another person about this so it was wonderful to hear your thoughts. He is 34 years old and suffered through cancer 10 years ago. He said his body has been through enough and he wants to make a 'logical' desision. Am I being to pushy? I dont feel supported at all.
  2. Hey All, I dont suppose there is anyone on here from Australia?
  3. I was diagnosed 6 years ago and have had no outbreaks. I havent in that time told a sole that I have this virus. 3 months ago I started a relationship with a close friend that I have known for 4 years. I am in love with him. I had to face this horrible issue that I buried for so long. 1 month ago I disclosed that I have HSV2 to hm. My partner is not dealing with it well at all. He said he needs time to think about things logically as he likes me alot, but does not want to contract the virus. I need advice. Should I be patient and stay or should I not waste my time and leave. Its been a month and we are slowly drifting apart. He is no longer affectionate towards me and I am feeling rejected and am starting to resent him for not liking me enough to support me and move forward with the relationship. He went to see a sex therapist yesterday, who basically said to him he needs to make the decision of whether he is going to marry me or not. He said he feels alot of pressure as he is not sure whether he wants to marry me or not as we have only been dating 3 months. I don’t know what to do. He hasn’t been overly supportive and I feel so rejected and ashamed. I have been patient and really supportive but I feel like Im being punished. I want to be with this guy. Is him having to think about whether he wants to be with me or not enough of a reason for me to leave this relationship? PLEASE HELP!
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