I have had herpes for 8 years and go into a relationship a year ago. Without telling him I have it we've been having sex unprotected. I knew I had to tell him but didn't know how. I made up a lie and told him my ex gave it to me and he needed to get tested. He was upset but accepted it and told me to be upfront with him about everything; he loved me. I felt like **** because I kept it from him, made up a lie and he still acceoted me.We continued on in the relationship however, recently broke up because of trust and communication issues. To add more insult to injury we haven't talked to each other in 3 weeks, I have a very close relationship with his family and go to the same church. I know he still loves me and it's possible that we may become intimate again. I don't know if I should tell him the truth whenever we converse or just let it be and be honest with myself and next person. THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR ADVICE; greatly appreciated.