I just found out last week I have herpes simplex 2, my boyfriend and broke up and I slept with a friend, my friend still doesn't think he gave it to me, cause he had never had any problems, but I haven't been with anyone but him before my break out, my dr hasn't explain alot to me. But now my bf wants to try to work things out, I'm scared to tell him cause I do love him but once he finds out I slept with someone and I havery herpes he may change his mind....how do u live with herpes? And after ur first break out when is it safe to be with anyone again, I feel dirty and it's driving me crazy, I'm on the anti viral meds but still have 5 days left to take, can anyone give me some answers please.