The man I have been seeing for 3 years now hasn't been with me exclusively and he just told me he may have been exposed to herpes. I love him so much. I don't want this to come between us. I don't want to be a trap. I don't mean I gave it to him. If anybody gave it to anybody between the two of us he gave it to me and he knows that. I want to be supportive. I want him to love me but not because I am now his only choice. I want to be his only choice but because he sees what a great catch I am and can't help but fall in love. I also got invited to a pure romance party and I don't know if I should go. I don't want to leave the house anymore because it feels like everyone can see through me. I don't want to talk to him about this because I'm afraid he will think I'm judging him. I don't need to have the discussion, we already had that. He had it with me. I'm just afraid he will blame himself for not being more careful and we will grow apart because of it.