So I'm 18 and a female. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and he knows. I am also sorry that this is going to be extremely long.
I just found out last Monday that I am positive for HSV. I can't remember which one it was exactly because my Doctor called me with the results and I of course couldn't focus or listen. All I heard was you are positive for hsv and that's as far as I listened. But they are on my genitals (I read you can have both on your genitals apparently) and I just have so many questions and I need somebody to talk to. I got them from my boyfriend, and he already knows. We're very open about things in our relationship and before I even went to the dr I had mentioned that I was going because I had these bumps on my vagina. He's tried his best to comfort me and nothing is working.
I'm taking the medicine for it and it ends tomorrow, but I feel like crap emotionally. It's like everything I do somehow relates back to my problem and I just get so upset at him and at life. We've been together for a long time and so I don't plan on leaving him over it, but I'm still really upset that we didn't take many precautions. We both knew he had it on his mouth, and we didn't do anything to prevent it. We also didn't know you could transfer it from mouth to genitals. But long story short, we both knew he had it and didn't think anything of it. We were always careful with not kissing and not doing oral when he had an outbreak and we didn't really do anything else to prevent it though.
I recently got a new job and for it, I have to be tested for TB, and on the paper it asked if I was taking steroids or a certain type of drugs and I had asked about them because I wasn't sure what they were and they said what kind and they listed the medicine I'm currently on and they said "well we will more than likely have to retest you after you're off of your medicine. It can give false answers" so of course I felt like crap for that. And now doing more paperwork for that job (it's kind of a big job, a lot of confidentiality papers, finger printing, etc) I came across a paper saying that I should get a HBV shot and in it it was saying that since I will more than likely come in contact with blood, I could be coming into contact with HIV and I read that it's now easier for me to contract that since I'm HSV positive and my mind is just running a million miles a second.
I have so many questions. I shave down there often and I thought they were just shave bumps at first so I didn't do anything about it until they became very painful. I eventually went to the dr because it had spread to my butt hole and I could barely even wipe. That's when I decided to go to the dr.
So question number 1: Do I have to throw my razors away if I used them during an outbreak? Obviously I won't do it again knowing what it is now, but what if I were to do it right before and then I suddenly break out? 2: Do I have to throw away my wash scrubbie for the shower if I have an outbreak? 3: can it stay like in my laundry even after I wash it? On my medicine at one point, it got to where I couldn't even wear panties or pants because anything touching it bothered it SO much. I don't really know much about this and I just need help. I feel like crap emotionally and I find it hard to do things throughout my day. I'm a full time student at college and I'm about to become a part time worker again.