Sillyhippy47

Katidid, he had mono a few weeks ago and then he got a blister thing on his tounge which we thought was just from the mono but it probably was the herpes.. I'm going to guess it's type 1 too.. if it hurts alot should I get out? If it will help it heal then I want to try it.. most of my sores have already had the fluid stuff come out and it's trying to heal up now( most of it) I looked it up and a few different places said salt water and chlorine both would help dry it out but my dr said it wouldn't make a difference.. she also didn't seem to know much about the subject but she obviously knows more than I do.. also I haven't been using soap down there just water. I don't want it to get infected but what should I use?

So I just found out I have herpes. The test results haven't came back yet but I've done so much research and the doc said that is what it looks like, plus my boyfriend had it first and then I got it . But neither one of us has never had any other sexual partner so we don't have any idea how this happened! I'm only 16. It is very bad bc this is my first outbreak and I didn't go to the dr for about 5 days. They gave me pills but no ointment and the lady was kind of rude and not helpful about how to deal with the agonizing pain of using the bathroom. I know about pouring water on it but that isn't always an option . I am on vacation with my grandparents at the ocean and they are going to wonder why I'm not getting in the water or why I'm spending at least 15 minutes in the bathroom at a time. Can I get in the water or will it hurt really bad or make it worse? There's a regular pool here too if that would be better. I am super depressed and I just had a miscarriage a few months ago and now this.. and I really don't understand why or how this happened to me.. anything related to my questions will help. Thanks..