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  1. I had one break out and haven't had one since and I have had it for almost three years it gets easier. Honestly, when I first got it I thought my life was over but after months of going to work and coming home to cry in the tub, I realized it wasnt. I got with a guy and at first, he didn't accept it and at times I think he still don't. Your not alone a lot of people have it and it's not something to be ashamed of!!
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    ashleys story

    When I first found out it was the worst thing to me. Then after a few months I got over it and was like well all i can do is move on. Since I have been with this guy though it has been really hard. He says he never thought he would be with someone who has something and he don't want to catch it. I explained to him I have had it for 2 years now and nobody else has gotten from me. I really do love this man and care about him. I have read more up on in it since i been with him then I ever have since I got it. I even got on the medication for him and it's like I don't know what else to do. I don't know if i should stay with him and see if it will take longer for him to adjust since we have only been dating 3 months or if i should break it off now.
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    ashleys story

    It's just so hard because it messes with my current relationship and hurts the guy im with. He tells me all the time I would be perfect if I didn't have that and it kills me because I just want to feel okay. Like I got herpes and it sucks and I just want to move on from it, but I don't know where to begin. I keep talking about it with my therapist, my bf, and my friends that know. I just feel like its still not good enough.
  4. Count me in I don't care if its a male or female. I live in Weirton, West Virginia.
  5. I had met this guy on facebook and we had talked to a few months. I was 17 and just looking for someone to date because i was always the one to be picked on in school. Well i felt a connection and he made me happy. Finally we met and went out on a double date with two of my friends. Afterwards he came to my house because my family was away on vacation and we started watching tv and making out and one thing led to another. Well he had left and went home and we continued talking. Three days after he went home it hurt so bad to sit and use the bathroom i thought that he just tore me since he had a big penis. Well i went to the doctors and they said i think u have herpes but im not sure. I wasnt bothered because i was like there is no way i know this doctor is wrong. Well they called me and when i went in she said i really did have it i did nothing but bawl my eyes out. I went to my friends house and layed in her tub and cried for hours wishing i would die. I called the guy and asked why he did it to me. He said he didnt have it and that it must have been someone else but before that i didnt do nothing for two years. The guy before him got tested and came back clean. So i feel the guy gave it to me and just wont admit it. It caused and causes so much mental problems for me. It took away my self worth, confidence, and every bit of strength i had left in me. I am still trying to get over it after two years and i still havent figured out how to get back to my old self
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    my partner

    We have went on many websotes and read info he went to the dcotors i jist dont know what else to tell him or say. I dont want to lose someone i love because of something i cant get rid of
  7. My partner found out that i have herpes and he doesnt know how to deal with it. He says he loves me and cares and wants to be around forever but he cant get ovwr the fact that i have herpes. I really care about him and want to be with him i just dont know what to do. I got on the medication for it and we bought condoms. What do i do to make him more comfortable about me having it?
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