Bellapink
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Hi everyone. I am a 25 year old female. I contracted genital herpes type 1 five years ago when I lost my virginity from receiving oral sex. I am currently seeing someone right now and I really like him and I am so scared to tell him that I have herpes. I have not had an outbreak since my initial outbreak 5 years ago. I am just so nervous of being rejected because I really do like this person and I do see us developing into a relationship but I am scared this is going to turn into him rejecting me. I have been rejected once before because I disclosed my herpes status and it definitely did hurt. I know that type 1 genitally is very common and I have read that the transmission rates are very low because it does not like to thrive in the genital region. If anyone can give me any inspiration I would appreciate it. thank you
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Can you get whitlow from fingering a person with type 1 genital herpes and no active outbreak ? I was hooking up with this guy last night and I have herpes type 1 on my genitals have had it for 4 years and no active outbreak. Apparently he had a cut on his finger and is now worried about him getting herpetic whitlow from fingering me. What is the likelihood he is going to develop this?
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Hi everyone, I have genital HSV 1. I am 22 years old and talking to this boy and I really like him and I don't know how to tell him I have herpes. Does anyone who has genital HSV-1 have you passed it on to your partner?
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okay thank you! one more question if the transmission rates are so low then why are so many people that have it spreading it during sex?
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Hi I got genital herpes type 1 from oral sex performed on me. I was wondering if its true that because herpes type 1 is usually oral and forms on lips that its true that when it is on the genitals the transmission rate is much lower? Also, since i am a female who has herpes is it true that transmission from female to male is much lower?
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thank you so much! I appreciate it!!
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Disclosing success!! 22F gHSV1
Bellapink replied to herpnerve's topic in Herpes talk success stories
this is awesome! I am also 22 years old with genital hsv 1 and i received it the same way you did -
Hi i am 22 years old and i have had genital hsv 1 for 2 and a half years. I have only had my initial outbreak and no outbreaks since. I really like this guy and I want to have sex with him but I am scared I am going to transmit it to him. I have tried taking daily suppressants and they give me absolutely awful migraines and I can't take the migraines. I was wondering if anyone had any advice or who has genital type 1! thank you!
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Do you take any daily suppressants?
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Hi everyone, I am 21 years old and I am starting grad school in August. I got herpes when i was 19 and I am starting to think about the future and dating and marriage. I am honestly so scared to even try to date and it freaks me out that I won't be able to get married or have children because of my herpes.
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Hi everyone. I got infected with genital herpes type 1 2 years ago. I have not had an outbreak since my initial outbreak. I am currently talking to this boy who I know wants to have sex with me and I do too but I am scared of giving it to him. I have tried to take Valaclovir to help reduce my transmission but it gives me terrible headaches. has anyone tried taking acyclovir for suppression?
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Hi, I am currently seeing this boy who does not have herpes and I started taking valtrex to reduce the spread. I have herpes type 1 on my genitals. I am getting bad headaches from valtrex and I was wondering if anyone else who is with a significant other who also does not have herpes does not use daily suppressants?
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Hi I have herpes type 1 on my genitals. I am a 21 year old female and I have had it for almost 2 years and only had my one initial outbreak. I have a few questions: -If I was to have sex with a box just vaginally and no oral sex and he wore a condom are the transmission rates high? - I don't take valtrex but I have heard that taking it everyday reduces the risk of transmission a lot? - Also is it true that HSV type 1 transmission is not as prevalent? thank you
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Hi everyone, I have herpes type 1 on my genitals. I have only had one initial outbreak and I remember it being big sores on my private area. I have noticed that I always have these little white bumps on my private area. I don't know if they are from shaving or a herpes outbreak. They don't hurt they are just there and very tiny and almost look like little pimples. Does anyone else experience these?
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Do you take them before you have sex to lower transmission rate?
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Hi everyone, I have type 1 herpes on my genitals. I have only had my initial outbreak but I was wondering should I be taking valtrex everyday for outbreaks even if I haven't had an outbreak since my initial outbreak
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Hi I am the same age as you and I am also going into my senior year of college. I got herpes type 1 after loosing my virginity to this guy I was talking to for months and I really liked. The crazy thing about it is he didn't even have herpes but must have had a cold sore on his lip that i didn't see. It is hard being in college with it but like you i'm just focusing on my future right now and getting into grad school. Stay strong!
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Hi everyone, I contacted herpes type 1 on my genitals while receiving oral sex. The man tested negative for everything and I don't believe he had any cold sores on his lips so i'm not sure how I got it we did not have sex just oral sex. I have only had my initial outbreak which was a year and a half ago. I was wondering because i have herpes type 1 on my genital if I used condoms and did not receive any oral sex if the rate of transmission will be low? also is it true that because herpes type 1 is usually on the mouth it is not suppose to be on the genitals and it is not used to the area? thank you
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Hi I have type 1 herpes on my genitals that I received from Oral sex. I am talking to this new guy and I was wondering if he gives me oral sex will he get it on his lips? Has anyone that has type 1 on their genitals passed it to their partner through oral sex? I am also taking antivirals as well.
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have you heard of taking red marine algae as a daily suppressetant? would this work as an antiviral too?
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so it is lower than 4% for genital if it is 4% for female to male with hsv?
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Hi I have recently been diagnosed with genital hsv type 1. I am reading different things and some people say that there is a very little chance of transmission for herpes type 1 when it is on the genitals since it is suppose to be in the mouth is this true? does anyone who have genital hsv 1 have you transmitted it to your partner?
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Hi everyone I have genital hsv type 1 and has only had my initial outbreak. I want to have sex with this boy I really like and he wants to have sex with me he took my virginity and then I went away to Ireland and some boy gave me this. He knows the whole situation about my herpes but I dont want to give it to him. Has any taken or tried taking red marine algae as a suppressive therapy every day. I was wondering if I should take this instead of taking valtrex everyday. I really dont want to take valtrex everyday