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YoursTrulyB

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  1. @katidid Sorry about that. I looked thought the post before asking but I must've missed that one lol I really do hope that's the case. You've been so helpful with your advice and sharing your story! I really appreciate it
  2. @katidid Sorry, misspelled your username lol
  3. @katydid That's great to hear that you and your friend have both found someone who is accepting of this. Seriously, that makes me very happy to hear and gives me some hope. Have you ever had someone reject you and then come back? I'm asking because the most recent guy I wrote about was perfect for me and from his actions, I was prefect for him. Things were moving fast and it looked like I would be in a great relationship in no time. When I told him, his reaction was the best I'd ever received. He held me, told me to calm down, and said that this doesn't change anything. He was still interested in getting to know me. A week later, he said he was having doubts and didn't know if this was something he could do. Usually, I'll accept the rejection and move on pretty fast. This guy is different. I know it sounds silly, but I'm really hoping he just got freaked out and after some time to think, he'll come back. Idk, I know I'm stretching but I really felt something different with him.
  4. @katidid do you think he would've never really told you had ou not found the cream? That's a pretty crazy story. Being told it's not something to worry about and later on finding out it is what you thought it was. I'm sorry it happened that way. I am glad to hear that you did find someone one! Definitely gives me hope. I'm still searching and the rejection hurts every single time. It never gets easier (for me at least) I hope the ohhh one comes along soon, idk how much more I can take lol
  5. @katydid Yupp, the very next morning. We had used protection up until that point. We had a whole conversation and he assured me he was fine. It drives me crazy to think someone could be that heartless. I could NEVER do that to someone. Thank you for the kinds words! I still have hope it will happen for me, however, it's slowly dwindling down. Rejection after rejection will do that to you. I just found this site and I have to say, reading the success storied really truly helps. Trying to stay positive! May I ask how you found out?
  6. @spatx919 Thank you for reaching out. It is a horrible feeling when someone you cared about does something like this to you. It happened three years ago and I'm still angry. It is nice to know there are people in my boat as well. I hope things get better for you and my inbox is always open if you need it : )
  7. Thank you for posting this. I was feeling so down about a recent rejection due to me being honest with him, but this helped. Trying to stay positive!
  8. I keep telling myself that and I'm really trying but it's so hard. Before people find out, they're all about me. Once they find out, they disappear. It's almost like, is who I am as a person not good enough? Is anyone ever going to be able to see past this? I try to pray about it and stay positive but I'm really struggling. Thank you for the kind words!
  9. Hi Everyone! I was diagnosed 3 years ago. I live in the Philadelphia area and am looking for a H buddy! I could use the support and I would love to support someone! :)
  10. Hey there! The first outbreak is by far the WORST. It's horrible but it won't last forever. Unfortunately, when I had my first I didn't really find anything that helped me. I had to just kinda wait it out. I can say that if you make it through this one (which you will :) ) you can make it through the rest! The longer you have it, the less frequent your outbreaks will occur. Stress also plays a huge factor in your outbreaks, try to remain calm and not freak out. You're going to be just fine :)
  11. Hey guys! I'm new to this and I'm just looking for some support as I've really been struggling lately. I' was diagnosed with HSV-2 about three years ago. I was so devastated. I was in a relationship with someone who I thought loved me and had my best interests at heart. We had the talk about unprotected sex and decided it was time to take out relationships to the next level. We trusted each other so it didn't seem like a bad idea... little did I know. We had unprotected sex and the very next morning I woke up in horrible pain. I couldn't really walk, use the restroom, I know something was wrong. I went to the emergency room and sure enough, it was herpes. I was mortified. I immediately went to my partner and told him what I just found out. His response? "Are we done here, I have to get back to work." He knew he had it. I guess my well being and safety didn't matter to him. Two weeks later, he moved to Cali. Needless to say, I was going through an emotional roller coaster. Not only was I just diagnosed with herpes, my "man" knew he had t and didn't care he gave it to me, and he was already planning to leave me (which I knew nothing about). I have struggled everyday since trying to cope with this. How do you trust anyone after something like this? Who is going to want to be with someone who has herpes? How do I tell people I have this? Will I be alone forever? Some days are easier than others but the worst is meeting someone new and having this thought longer in the back of your mind. I recently met and AMAZING guy. He was everything I had been looking for, seriously. We had an amazing connection and he acknowledged that as well. Things were moving fast so I decided to have the talk. He took it pretty well, said that it didn't change his feelings towards me, and that we would just be careful moving forward. I was ecstatic! Finally, someone who wanted me just as much as I wanted them. A week later I got the TEXT. " I don't think I have it in me to be with someone in your condition". Heartbroken. Everyday since I've felt so low. I don't know where to go or what to do. All I want to do is cry.
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