RunningGirl

I just did the same thing this morning over text. I sent a text saying I need to tell him something confidential. I said I got some lab results and was shocked. Have you ever had a cold sore? Well it’s a kind of HSV and I tested positive for HSV. 85% of people who have it don’t know until they get tested. Chances are you don’t have it. However, I owe it to you to tell you. I don’t know where I got it or how long I’ve had it. I’ve only been with a handful of people, all of whom claimed to be clean. Guess what? He understood and said his brother has genital H. As long as I get on Baltrex he still wants to see me. So please be upfront and honest quickly. It will be appreciated.

The virus will only live for a few hours on a toilet seat or a towel, so as long as you clean them with soapy water (according to a book downloaded from ASHA) and air dry they should be fine. I don’t think it’s a good idea to share a sex toy. Not only could you be shedding, but they could have something new that you catch.

Sorry to hear your news. Are you more upset about the lie or the H? Granted he took that choice from you, but had he told you, you love him, eventually you would have stopped taking precautions right? Not saying what he did was fair, but he’s human and it is a fairly common skin rash, not leprosy. Perhaps you could seek joint counseling?