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  1. Fun* not funny. Have to make tge best of it. Also im sorry for your troubes
  2. I have been eating a lot of garlic cloves. At lease 3 a day. Ive slacked in my meds but its been ok for the most part.. for a little test. No im not having sex so i thought it would be funny to learn more of my h. Also, i use tea tree on any new spots they go away in a day or so.. the sooner i do it the sooner it goes away.
  3. It's hard at first, but over time it will get better. It becomes Normal, don't feel like u need to be in a bubble. It was so hard for me too at first. Found out in July hsv2 .. the first is the worst.. u panic at first with anything Nd every thing.. had. Small o.b. last week I use tea tree oil and it went away in no time. I wasn't even sure if it was it at first.. everyone is diffrent.. but it's not the end of the world. Hang in there like my eyes Re with this small screen T this hr of the night. Please excuse my typos. U will come back stronger when the shock fads.. u haven't but that will. Don't give up u got this!
  4. Sorry on taking so long to get back to you. Hope u have found out what is going on.. of course u can always pm me if need I've managed to Karen how to live with it.. had a o.b. the other week and it wasn't any thing crazy.. kept hands clean. Tea tree oil and peroxide helped everything in my low area was going in a few days this really isn't all that bad after the first round of it. Never thought I would say that.
  5. Benadryl to sleep? I have trouble going to sleep.. then it's not it flops... and some times its hard for me to wake up. Some days I feel depressed or irritable...more than normal & others I'm fine. Idk if it's because I'm in in the gym like I had or not.. to allow my legs to bulk.. I also take acyclovir.. im 29 just found out July I had hsv2. All of this off sleep / modd swings are new maybe a month long.
  6. Hax had the same feeling in my legs that got out if control.. come to find out I had A double William Chlamydia (went back for a fully test) and hsv2 (that i had known about for. A week) from my partner. I don't kniw much about e.h. I had them bad after having a kido... I would call ur o.b. happy ur not having. Lot if trouble with this. U will feel better before u know it
  7. Yes, it will... see a way I see it is that if a joke or something is made.. that it's silly... So many people have cold sores.. that is h. My mother has had that for so long friends at schoom. You don't have to tell what is going on in ur life.. less is more to the secondary people in ur life. Yet be vuge Bout it if u want people to know... but not know. U can to about it in an educated way or something if it makes u feel better... I found out when ushers stuff was on facebook.. I knew some but not a lot... an still learning. Yet being able to have others understand my point, and educate them felt good... I didn't tell them I had hsv2 .. but I wouldn't tell them if I had Piercings down low in that area. It should subside , think how far u have come in 6 months.
  8. Ohhhhhh... I forgot how small this screen is to type in & I'm the worst with text. So forgive my typos. One, I don't get why they didn't tell u right away if it was 1 or 2... but with what I am reading our story's are a lot a like. Yet , i had a bad spell in the lower area.. my o.b. said it was the worst she had seen in years... lots of stress during that time. She also told me the same with time frame with the guy I slept with(it was him most likely) . With out seeing it, and picturing it , with what I know I would say u have 2.. I could be very much wrong... they are not very much diffrent I had as them as sister's. Idk how diffrent the episode's are with amount of sores... my mothers 1 is NOTHING.. but my 2 was just bad all together.. i know 2 is more frequent.. I'm not a Dr and still learning.. it's not the end of the world. I thought it was for me and still feel it from time to time. H lies dormant it could of been asleep for a long time in ur spine , and woke up or of no where, and could go back to sleep.. now or later. That is from my understanding & everyone is diffrent... Goodness... I have so much to say to ur response.. what ur fela is saying sounds like the one im at odds with now and may have got it from him. I can be a fire ball at times an boy.. I was mad and to my limit. After I left my o.b and she said" it could be, im sure it is... but let's test. " I called him... &... He said he gets a little spot from time to time.. heat spot.. has had it for some time & tested and so on. Do i belive him no.. I've asked for his paper work and have yet got it. I pary u don't have a "chopped" relationship.. like I do.. I was cloud 9, then I hit a wall. Your guy may have an idea... but he has never fully known.. ??? Just in a way to get yourself ready for the talk .. look for empathetic reaction, yet a shock and knowable statement from ur poin? Don't start off with the illness but the experience on basic level.. I would do your Research still about what they first said u had and learn some hard facts of hsv. It's like an open close case. .. u dont know how deep the convo will be... The guy I belive I got it from had a lot of facts for me.. it was off but he is mad smart. It calmed me down.. So I'm trying to open a view of having this down pat... like a draft.. nothing diffrent then I would tell me best friend, but u have to do what's best for you. It's a hard topic.. shedding is a big thing... with what info I got... we don't always pass it. There Re times of shedding when marks are not there. I saw a post on here of a woman who had it she has bee. married for a good length of time and he has yet to get it from her. I can say I have become friends with tea tree oil... look that up. I have a bottal on hand.. Yet I have discovered hemp tea tree peperment oil ( something aling the lines) body wash. I haven't looked it up , but it makes me feel better about life.. it's the little things. Make sure to not alow cuts to tuch infected area, well really any thing wrap that up if possible.. liquid bandaid also a bff along with hand saandatizer.. keeping hands clean is good but soup kills the bug is I read right. All in all a way I gripped it on emotional view was the movie Fiqhi Friday With Lindsay lohan.. she coukd kiss him all the time but then she had a cold sore... nope. Sorry for the scramble book.. I know exactly how u feel.. remember u are not alone!! It's not as big of a thing as u learn more. U can inbox me it u like. Also , u will know what to do with y'all talk be open minded at all time Nd don't forget to use "i" not "you" he could end up being in shock too.. can't let someone drift in a bad way.. have to take care of the same shock wave even if the volts are to high. Hang in there.
  9. First I thought the same about the dating life. Yet, whenever I looked to another perspective, it has turnd my dating life almost like " the old Fashion way.." , I guess u can say. The "no sex before marrage". I'm sure it isn't just as so, but I still feel like I need to be bubble boy at times .. but to be able to fully get to know someone with out the "fun" will help develop a stronger bond and a solid friendship. It has set my standards higher to find someone who is grounded, who gets me. I don't feel obligated to other people, and know more of what I want in someone.. that big set is, can I open up to them N trust them, do they love u for u, will they take the time to get that other part of u, and take time to understand it... if they don't already have it. I'm new to hvs2 as of July.. Idk how long I have had it, im slowly opening the conversation to my x i left a year ago, of 2 years , to also take a test. That way i have an idea of when I picked up the shock of my life. The view may be cheddar cheesed out- , but-- being optimistic is a must when stress is a factor that isn't worth the worry.
  10. I know your feeling. Breathe, and know that it will be ok. The first episode is the worst with hvs2.. idk about one.. but from my understanding.. hsv 1 u have less episodes while 2 has more... i was told that 2 is for the lower part of the body, yet u can get 1 there too, And vice versa. It's all about open wounds and shedding on a sum of a view I got from a friend to get me to relax. I was not ok and very dpressed, Im better now that I learned a lot & still learning a lot. I found out at the end of july that I had hsv2. One thing is that I can say an wish someone would of told me... If you bite ur nails or anything like that stop, I was hard my nails in July , with what life had for me. Do to that, I am in a spot that I may have hsv on my hands,(secondary b.o.?) I pray they are something else. I understands how u feel left in the dark by drs, I still feel that way to this day. I'm my opinion Google is scary... do search things and take notes, that way u can bring it up to ur Dr. And nothing is missed. Sorry for the scattered ramble, having to put the phone down a lot during this text. Happy u don't have hiv.. that is a positive outlook. Hang in there, when u learn more the less scary it is. U are not alone! U Would be surprised on how many people actually have it, some know, some don't.
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