Lol! That's great! I think we'll be able overcome this & be closer as well. I originally thought I had a UTI and yeast infection but then all sorts of craziness started happening & I was like wtf?! I've never experience any kinda this before! I told him, "I'm a hot mess down there, you just need to stay away until I figure out wth is going on!" And I was googling b/4 I was able to see a Doc cuz it was literally Christmas and I'm like shit, can we really have herpes?!? I just had a baby 9mos ago & they test for that! And I had a baby the year before so I've had all sorts of blood tests and waving my vagina everywhere at medical staff since that's basically what you do when you're pregnant for like 2yrs in a row! Lol And my best friend is a L&D nurse (who delivered my 1st) and it didn't even dawn on her when I was describing my symptoms (cuz I run to her for anything & everything under the sun!) lol But at any rate, I just figure take it one day at a time until it's our new normal and I guess just figure it out as things get thrown at us..?? Such is life, right?