So my partner and I haven’t had sex in over two weeks and I have hsv 1 genitally (I’m female) the last time we had sex I was on daily antiviral therapy and we didn’t use a condom. Flash forward 2+ weeks: He said his penis was a bit irritated a few days ago and then he masturbated and it made it worse, he now has what looks kind of like a laceration near the head of his penis. It doesn’t look like any hsv outbreak I’ve ever seen, he didn’t have any bumps or blisters, any ulcers (just one kind of raw spot that doesn’t look ulcery just sorta chafed) or any crusting. In addition, the first outbreak of gsv1 is almost always pretty severe from what I’ve read and this doesn’t even look like herpes to me and is only slightly irritating to him. It also usually takes fewer than 2 weeks for symptoms to show after exposure, and it’s been over two weeks. Also if I was taking daily antiviral therapy it wouldn’t really make sense that I’d have given it to him when I had no symptoms and was on antivirals and have type one which is harder to contract. Any thoughts? Could this just be irritation from something? We would go to the doctor, but there are no actual sores for them to swab and getting blood tested for hsv1 would be inconclusive because it wouldnt show where the infection was if it even showed he had it at all. I’m freaking out, he’s cool as a cucumber but I was just wondering if it’s valid for me to deduce that this isn’t hsv given the symptoms, time frame, me on antivirals with no symptoms + type one, etc.? Thanks in advance for any help!