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  1. Never mind I was freaking out. He definitely remembers, he said he’s worried about getting it but I sent him transmission links and explained a few things. Told him to look for anything abnormal. He seems okay!
  2. Regular guy, your advice was exactly what I needed to hear. I have read it many times over and I’m very thankful you commented. Update: I went on the trip, and we had tons of fun together! we slightly talked about it and he admitted he just can’t take the risk which I understand. After meeting me and hanging out, he realized he really likes me and was just hurt by me not telling him, but not anymore. The situation was quite confusing but I felt better after a bit. We kissed and fooled around a bit, but weren’t having sex. Until the last night we both got really drunk, and I remember him tellling me how bad wanted to have sex and we did.. but I vaguely remember any of this. And I’m not sure if he remembers. Now I’m just scared to tell him. What a mess.
  3. So, I was recently diagnosed about 6 months ago after receiving from my ex. I have disclosed to 2 people, one that was a fling and one that we had a short relationship. They were both in person and we’re both okay with it. Neither of them got it from me. I have been talking to this guy online after meeting through a similar festival we go to. We have been texting and talking for about 8 months now. Sometimes we do talk very sexual and flirty towards each other and have been very excited about meeting. He asked me a month ago to finally come and visit, so I agreed and got a 1 hr flight to where he lives. I was torn between telling him I’m persom, or over text for awhile. I decided to tell him in text so he wasn’t mad or anything, as I didn’t know how he’d react. I’m the text I explained I don’t have many symptoms, that I take suppressive medicine, that I had sex with someone else and they never got it, and explained how low transmission rates are. I said it didn’t affect me much but that if it changed his opinion I’d understand. Long story short his response wasn’t too thrilling. Mostly a “I don’t know what to think. I can’t rake a risk of getting an incurable STD.” Which I completely understand. He said he wasn’t mad but mostly disapppinted. He said he still wants me to come and he’s still excited to meet me.. It’s only been about a day but I’m just really upset and feeling awful about myself. We haven’t really talked much since that convo and I can tell things are different. I’m feeling really weird about going now because I don’t know how to act exactly. From where our relationship was before to where I guess it is now I’m confused. I wish I would have let him really meet me before I told him. I feel like it would of been different. I’m not gonna know how to act when I get there. I feel like maybe I should give him time and see how things go. I hate feeling like a decision. I feel gross and really down on myself a lot these days. I wish it didn’t have to be like this. Sorry for ranting
  4. Hi, so I was recently diagnosed at the beginning January from my ex. Since then I’ve disclosed to 2 people, both who which really liked me and decided they didn’t care. I saw the one guy for about a month and a half, we used condoms off and on but he never received the virus. I’m also taking antivirals. I’ve been talking to this guy from out of state for months, we go to similar music festivals and got eachother contact through that. We have never officially met, but have spent tons of time talking. He’s been really wanting me to come visit, so I booked a flight and am leaving in 2 weeks. We are attracted to eachother and talk sexually so I know we will end up having sex. I’m nervous if I should wait til in person to disclose, or if I should tell him over text before? I’m afraid over text it’s not so personable and he may not want me to come. Which would be shitty but I’d understand. But also I don’t want to go all the way there and it’s awkward or he’s angry I didn’t tell him before I came? I’m really unsure which route to go.
  5. I have recently been diagnosed with HPV2 after being with my ex. I had an extreme and painful first outbreak that started January 19. The sores have been healed with the medicine. I have a mild itch and lfaded pink spots where the outbreak was. 2 nights ago, me and a friend got really drunk together and had sex. I told him my diagnosis and explained, he was cool with it. We used protection. After reading on here I’m extremely scared that I still may have givin it to him with the itching still occurring. What are the chances? What do I do? I’m so scared and am really freaking out.
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