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  1. I talked with the doctor and we reschedule next week. He said it will get worse just wait a week. Btw can I ask you something? My husband and I had sex saturday and sundan it started itch and monday full outbreak :( we use condom though but no antivirals :( He is still neg after 6 years and I want to keep him that way. What are the possibilities?
  2. Okay I have this rash like liken planus kind of thing which still not diagnosed. I had a biopsy schedule this thursday and today I brokeout. Biopsy will be inside of labia minora and outbreak is on the outside labia minora. Its exactly the same labia. Doctor said it would be fine but wouldnt be worse. With stiches and outbreak. Should I re schedule? Doctor says this is important! You shouldnt cancel it but I had a second thoughts in my mind.
  3. Its been more than 5 years now. I miss my old days enjoying sex. Now, while doing it I am so anxious. Cant enjoy. I missed those days. Since I have been diagnose nothing is normal down below. Almost every week I had something weird happening down there. Itchs, stings, burns. Sometimes for a week everything is fine such a relief. And its not always there is visual outbreak. Doctors dont understand give me some cortisone cream or yeast medicine and send home. I wish there was a cure or relief from this :( I am so frustrated. I accept the fact thats what I have but couldnt accept the constant disturbness. Ah I needed to rant!
  4. I don't know the stats for transmission during an outbreak (and it's pretty much impossible to say if what you're experiencing is an outbreak without seeing your doctor). If someone with a new infection is going to show symptoms, they usually do so within about 10 days. I very much relate to being hyper aware of my genitals for months. As I continue to become more at peace with my status, that has largely gone away. Remember that your husband knows your status and still chooses to have sex. None of us can predict our outbreaks and sometimes we don't even know if what we're experiencing is an OB! We can only do our best. Then it's up to our partner to make their own decisions, knowing there will always be a risk of transmission. How about this? We are using condom everytime we had sex. When he tries to pull of condom with his fingers what about the posibility to transmit to his hand or he touches his eyes? He is a lens user and so scarres he might get somehow to his eye. I dont even let me him touch me down there and its frustrating :(
  5. On my inner labia I found out one small white pimplish and painless bump. Last nite, I had sex with my husband no prodrome feeling at all. This morning I got little itchy so I wanted to check. Its more looking like pimple so I wanted to squeeze it which puss doesnt come out easly like pimple. It was little hard and I tries hard and small white puss came up. Could be mild outbreak? What are the possibility of transmission? My husband used condom no suppression though my livee has some problem and my doctor cut it out! Btw, did you guys feel like its constant disturbance and I am always aware of my vagina after herpes. This started after 3-4 months after I got diagnosed. I have it for like 5 years and soooo tired!
  6. Hello everyone, I have herpes for almost 5 years now. I am happily married but our sex life is not much. 2-3 times a week maybe less. This time I had operation for wisdom teeth. And use a lot of antibiotics. After 3 weeks of no sex, me and hubby had sex just for 2 min. I havent had symptoms before sex so I thought its safe. but after 2 min I had some discomfort and little pain. I washed off and check with a mirror. No blisters, little reddish spot inside labia minora. Also I now have minor symptoms like tingling. So freaking out, could he contracted after 4 year. (He doesnt have it.) we used condom and I am using valtrex. But 3 days ago I forgot to take valtrex. What are the risks? Red spot is inside my labia minora.
  7. Hello, Yesterday night, I go commando in PJs for vagina health. And I forgot to put it dirty close basket. It was in my chair, in my room. I had my outbreaks healed 2 weeks ago. Today in the morning my sister wearing my PJs, I immidealty get her off. She said she was wearing underpants in it. I still freaked out. I know I have not have outbreak but the small risk of transmission w/o obs. God, help me pls? I am scarred :(
  8. I had an outbreak on 5th Jan. for like 8-9 days. All the prodromes, open sore even single itch stopped since then. Buy today I checked and there was still redish, small spots remains around the place that I get outbreak. I have it like 4years now and never left a mark before. This was also minor small 2 spots as usual. I get them 2-3 times a year. This is the first time I found that it was still not normal. Any ideas how to get normal skin again? Does it contains virus? Do you think its still active? Its been 13 days so how long should I wait to see doctor? I am using zinc oxide cream for the skin and valtrex. Ps. I used valtrex almost 3.5 years daily. Now, I am using episodically for 6 mos. do u think this cause the red marks remained? Thanks in advance, Love
  9. They didnt swab just visual diagnoses. It has been on and off like 3 mos almost. The rash is always there but itch is fade away somedays
  10. I have a raised rashes penny size in vulva no blister, no pain just occasionaly itch. I have visited many doctors. I used yeast and bacterial infections treatment. Skin treatment from dermotologist like streoid creams, non streoid creams also essential oils. Its been more than 2 mos. Sometimes flares up and burns alot somedays are fine. Rash is always there but no sypmtoms. Its like anything it looks like eczema but doctor tested for it. Any ideas or syptoms like mine? I have herpes for 3.5 years and I used valtrex daily. Ps. I am also newly married and my hubby is very patient about this but I feel like he got bored about this. I always push him away because of this. I fear that it might me herpes. I know it cant last long for 2 months but I can think of anything
  11. I dont know how to relax my mind! Its been anxiety attacks all over my head. I cant enjoy sex, I cant enjoy intimissi :( I love him deeply but I am scarred that he might not love me if he catchs it!
  12. I am going to see new psychatrist today. My aunts know him and scarred that he might tell them. I know its forbidden but they worked together for years so I am anxious about it
  13. It could be psychological too but I am curious about possibility of this way transmission
  14. This weekend me and my fiance stayed in a hotel. We weren't seeing eachother almost a month and so passionate. While having sex like 5-10 min I started having pain inside my vagina we stopped and I checked outside no visible outbreak. Then later dinner we tried and everything was fine. (Just a little painful no disturbing) In the morning We tried again and same pain! we immideatley stopped. ( he is so supportive about this) btw we dont use lubrication but use condoms with extra lubrication on it almost for 3 years same brand. No alergenic to condoms either. 2-3 hours later we tried again then we manage to have it in a different position and there was little pain in the and not the beginning though! Know I am scarred to death I had an internal ob and gave with vaginal fluids :( I am so anxious about this since he gets more illness then me. My immunity is little stronger I believe so I keep manage the outbreak less painful and scarred that he might get worse thing from me. Forgive me for my questions back to back, thanks in advance
  15. Thank you. He never mention it though never bother me with herpes either. He obviously dont care but I am scarred to date. I become OCD about transmitting someone I love even though I dont have much of a problem with herpes
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