Hello!
I just finished reading your post. At least she told you about her condition and didn’t hide it from you. Secondly you need to visit your Doctor for a visual and blood work examination to see if you have it. Some people never have signs of it and that’s how they contract the disease itself and then spread it about. Just find out from your Doctor and if you don’t have it, then that’s awesome, move on. If you do have it, use the cream and take your meds for it.