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I have been having some back and forth sexting with a very, very cute nurse who is out of town (were both vaccinated), and its been clear that when he's back we wanted skip the dinner part of the 2nd date. I usually disclose in person ,but did it through text this time, heres how it went: 

Me: Also, since I’d very much like to **** you ( with again, no assumptions) tell me about your sexual health. I’ve had 2 partners since my last test, one of them was tested while I was with them. Planning to get a test in the next few weeks. I have hsv2, on acyclovir, 2 outbreaks in my life and had it since I was 22, condoms are my friend. I have a whole song and dance about herpes I can do if you have questions, I’m guessing you may be fairly educated on the topic considering your job? It’s a very good dance though, so, you might want to take me up on it. 

Him: I absolutely want to see your herpes dance! Not for educational purposes just for watching you dance. And thanks for your openness and honesty. It makes me even more **** for you. (Redacted personal information about his sexual health)  As for Friday yes I absolutely want to see you on Friday. 

Something I would recommend - I love starting my disclosure with a question about their sexual health. It makes it a dialogue, and its not just your status thats important in these conversations, its theirs too! And you can be a little playful. If I'm disclosing, I'm saying I might want to have sex with you- lucky you! It's not doom and gloom, it's just another step in a responsible, enjoyable sex life. 

Happy disclosures! Dunno about you but I'm looking forward to the weekend 😄

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