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I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and he's everything I've been looking for.   Things have been going great and I knew it was time to say something.  I have been practicing,  reaching out to friends for support and advice...I was terrified.  So tonight we had a date and I made it so that he picked me up and our date ended by him dropping me off.   We were saying goodnight in the car and I knew it was now or never, I couldn't keep this in anymore.  I went through my speech and said what I needed to,  and then waited to hear him.   He said that it's not a dealbreaker at all and that it changes nothing.   He actually thought that there was something wrong with him or that I wasn't sexually attracted to him.   I told him it was quite the opposite but that this conversation had to happen first. He thanked me for telling him too.  I'm not going to lie,  that was one of the hardest things I've ever done but it was the right thing to do and as of now,  he's accepted me.   

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Hi!!

Yayyy!!! This is awesome and inspiring. I am so happy for you!! You totally deserve this understanding answer from him, and he seems to be very respectful. 

Hooray for honesty and understanding!! I wish you both well ❤️

Sending happiness and blessings!! 🍀☀️🌄🌼❤️🌈

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31 minutes ago, Sarah317 said:

I am so proud of you and I needed to read this so very badly today. You have given me hope again! Maybe one day I will meet the one for me. I am so excited for you!!

Thank you!  It was definitely worth the risk and he's a great guy.   He actually introduced me to his boys yesterday and we're now planning a mini vacation together. My H status changed nothing for him.   I'm so blessed.   Please never give up hope!  You will find someone who will love ALL of you. 

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