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Thank you all for the kind words. AbbyRoad is right, and I can and do get a chip on my shoulder from time to to time. I do have issues with those who know and fail to disclose and I'm working through that. I'd say the same thing if it was this, chlamydia, and especially HIV. Sometimes I can be a bit rough with that tough love.

 

Abby, what you don't know is that SIAR and I have had some very good off board conversations. I may use a stick to smack some common sense around on the forum, but it's always an olive branch. Yes, we are human. Yes, we make mistakes and I make more than my fair share. However, part of healing ourselves and reducing the H stigma is to become better than we were. That's a hard road. Just read the story I posted just yesterday and I think you'll see that. I'm 36 and I just discovered what it feels like to truly forgive, and I'm still on my own road of personal growth and discovery because I know I'm far from perfect.

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Herry I love the way you come across. Sometimes it is not what we want to hear , but it needs to be here.

 

It's like me. I come off as blunt and to the point. Sometimes people take this as me being rude, but its me showing that I love and that I care!

 

I understand Herry we can all have a bit of a chip on our shoulders from time to time.. isn't that what we are all here for ? Through the good and the bad ?

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@abbyroad thanks for the defense but I in no way was offended by what anyone said I came on here because I needed to make sense of everything that was going on in my head. Everyone said what I was already thinking I just wanted some much needed encouragement. Which ended up coming in the shade of tough love but it's a very serious matter so I understood the reaction completely. I took everyone's advice with the lightest heart and really appreciated it all it helped me do exactly what I knew I needed to and things worked out well.

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