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Question: Herpes giver contacting me

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Hey again, CAS! It's been a while!


One word: Boundaries. If you truly don't want to have contact with anyone in your life, whether they gave you herpes or they just give you a headache ... it's your right to not have to get contacted by them if you don't want it. And you can do it in a nice way, but it's an option for you. Don't put up with anything that doesn't serve you.


And in the same breath, I feel the need to say there's an opportunity for you to forgive him. I read a great facebook quote today: "The first step to forgiveness is ... realizing they're batshit crazy." If you need that kind of a realization to truly forgive, then do it. Holding resentment and hatred is only hurting yourself. Resenting somebody else is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die. ;)

Note: This is for informational purposes only. This information does not constitute medical advice or diagnosis.
I'm not a medical professional, so please take this as friendly peer support. 

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