Using a letter to disclose herpes

[KPonyo23]

Ok so I have been talking to this guy I really like but was terrified to tell him to his face that I have herpes....so a week or two ago I wrote a letter explaining that I have it, how I got it, etc but I changed my mind about giving him the letter because most of the advice I got from everyone was to tell him in person so that was my plan. But today he brought up the letter and he really wanted it and wasn't really talking no for an answer. He said he wants to read it and we can talk about what ever it is after he reads it so after a while I gave it and gave him the letter. That was at about 11am today and I still haven't heard anything from him...should I reach out to him maybe text him or something? I mean I don't want to rush him or anything and I want him to take as much time as he needs but I'm going crazy here lol ...I really like him and wanna know what he has to say or is it safe to assume he no longer wants to talk to me?

[whitedaisies]

Hugs!!!!

 

I dunno....I would wait....wait a few days and then check in.

 

Lets see what everyone else says.

 

Hugs

[KPonyo23]

Thanks! You respond so fast I love it !!!!! *hugs!!!!!!!*

[whitedaisies]

I am really rooting for you.

 

Just know that however it turns out you are one special lady and we are all herefor you.

 

I would give him space even though its torture then follow up tomorrow.

 

Xo

[willow]

I agree with miss daisy here.

wait a bit.

i mean maybe he took it home and hasnt read it yet?

Maybe hes still thinking about it.

dont rush him whatever u do!)

[riverstyx]

In my part of the world it is Wednesday. I would wait until Saturday, and then you can reach out to him with a text or a phone call. Good luck!

[WCSDancer2010]

I agree with the others ... wait ...

 

Did you give him the links to the handouts and e-book in the letter? My one concern is that he will be going online and getting bad info ... so you may want to text/email him the links to make sure he gets accurate info...

 

And next time, if you don't want to give a guy a letter that you wrote, tell him you tore it up and threw it out... :p

 

(((HUGS)))

 

Here are the links:

 

Handouts + disclosure e-book:

http://eepurl.com/b4IPP

 

Herpes facts video

[KPonyo23]

Thanks everyone!!!! Well he msged me back later that day and all he said was " how was your day" ...I said ok and we talked for a little while but nothing about herpes he nvr brought it up ...I think he may still be letting it settle in...idk

[KPonyo23]

I am so happy I found this cite everybody is so helpful and supportive *happy tears* :')

[whitedaisies]

Happy tears are good....lots of people here for you whenever you need.

 

Good sign he reached out but yes he may still be processing.

 

Lots of love and luck

 

Xo