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Honey - our life expectancy is about 4,000 weeks. You have been dealing with this for what? 8-12 weeks maybe (or less???) I know it feels like forever either way. But you have had 2 miscarriages and I bet that life pretty well seemed like it was over then, and you got through it. You will get through this too. Yes, it sucks to be dealing with both at the same time... but just allow yourself to go through all the stages of grief ... you HAVE to go through them to heal. So don't fight it... allow yourself to be sad AND at the same time, do things that bring you joy and happiness..... in time, you will come out the other side...



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You will get through this; believe it. Many on this forum have been where you are and have come through, some in very happy relationships today. It's easy to get caught up in the what-ifs, and to think about the past and the future, but when that happens, just try your best to stay grounded in the moment. Right now is all you have, and all you know. Right now is the only moment that matters for your happiness. Instead of thinking of all the things that feed negative thoughts, write a mental list of every you are grateful for, and everything you love about yourself. Make it the first thing you think of when you wake up and the last thing you think of when you go to bed. Keep trying, don't give up. One day, it will get easier, you will feel better and you will love yourself. One day at a time. Stay strong.

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