Why do people with (h) think everything changes for them?

[genussbutterfly]

Hey. I have been reading some posts about unsuccessful disclosure between people. I haven't been in that situation but I can just tell from reading the posts it must suck to be in that situation and its going to happen but you have to be strong and realise that person was not for you and it doesn't define you, it defines them.

 

I just want to tell people your life is the exact same it was before you had herpes. Everything stays the same the only thing that is different is that if you become intimate with someone you will have to diclose wheras people that don't have herpes don't have to do that. What small difference is that? I totally agree it would be nice if we didn't have (h) so we don't have to disclose but hey its life.