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My story 1 yr on

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Hi guys, it was last yr when I slept with a guy who I thought was DECENT! 4 days later I found unbearable sores down below. When I confronted him he denied it and said it must be me! Even tho I explained I had a checkup a month prior. I was broken ashamed and had no one to speak to. This then developed into severe depression I would not leave my house. I was given anti depressant tablets and often thought of ending it all. I then met a guy who changed all that and brought back the old me. I have had 1 flare up since then and took my tablets aciclovir. Since then I have met another guy and he asked my have I had a check up I know I am clean but will always be a carrier. He has made it clear he does not like using condoms I need helpppppp it's not something u can just openly tell a new partner who isn't you boyfriend as of yet pls help xx

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Have you downloaded the free e-book on this site? Look in the right sidebar for that. It goes into all the details you need and it's a quick read. I'm proud of you for being considerate of this new guy, even amidst the fear of disclosing. And check out these handouts, too. They answer a lot of the kinds of questions that are probably swimming around in your head. Please let us know if you have anything else that comes up around this. http://herpeslife.com/resources/

Note: This is for informational purposes only. This information does not constitute medical advice or diagnosis.
I'm not a medical professional, so please take this as friendly peer support. 

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