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I'm finding that forgiving my partner is harder than I thought. I find myself starting arguments and being angry at him often,. I wonder sometimes if I can get past this anger.

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He did and he didnt tell me. He says he was afraid to tell me. On top of being afraid, I'm sometimes not the easiest person to talk to, not making excuses just being honest. Thing is I love him and its just so hard. I am working on forgiveness but I will find things to get mad at him for and start an argument so I can throw it at him.

I do appreciate your feedback. I started seeing a therapist because i realize i needed someone other than him to talk to.

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Ah, many people battle the fear of rejection due to their status. It doesn't make it right, and I'm sure it doesn't make it better, but maybe it'll help you understand a little. It IS a breach of trust though, and it's going to probably take awhile for you to forgive him..

 

I agree that it helps to talk to someone on the outside! And if you need to, you can vent to us as well! Keep us updated, and best of luck with the therapy!

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Right now you are going through the grieving process, if you will. Anger is the first, second stage of the process. Forgiveness comes with acceptance, untill then meet with your therapist. Perfectly normal what you are going through. Just remember there is no timeframe for each stage.

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