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The man I have been seeing for 3 years now hasn't been with me exclusively and he just told me he may have been exposed to herpes. I love him so much. I don't want this to come between us. I don't want to be a trap. I don't mean I gave it to him. If anybody gave it to anybody between the two of us he gave it to me and he knows that. I want to be supportive. I want him to love me but not because I am now his only choice. I want to be his only choice but because he sees what a great catch I am and can't help but fall in love. I also got invited to a pure romance party and I don't know if I should go. I don't want to leave the house anymore because it feels like everyone can see through me. I don't want to talk to him about this because I'm afraid he will think I'm judging him. I don't need to have the discussion, we already had that. He had it with me. I'm just afraid he will blame himself for not being more careful and we will grow apart because of it.

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No he told me he may have given it to me and I feel like he has no choice but to be with me now. He isn't my boyfriend. Perhaps if he was this wouldn't have happened. He doesn't want to get in a relationship because of another situation in his life because he is afraid of breaking another heart. A friend from school invited me to a party and I don't know if I want to go and number 1 because of the kind of party it is and number 2 because I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm afraid they will see right through me and pump me for information. I want this man to love me but because he sees what a great catch I am and can't help but fall in love. Not because we are both sick and afraid of people finding out.

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Have you had an ob?

Have you been tested?

Has ur friend had an ob?

Has he been tested?

Start by basing your decisions on facts not assumptions

Either way, sounds like you need to have a heart to heart with you friend. If youve been seeing him for 3 yrs this 'relationship' aint going anywhere and will only be fwb. Accept that or move on

Must always use protection.

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