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Will I never be able to kiss anyone again?

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I am getting the test done on Tuesday but all signs point to both Oral and genital herpes.

When the GH OB first occurred it's been hard enough knowing I could never have sex again without hurting someone else. Now I can't even kiss anyone without disclosing?!?! This is so upsetting and makes me feel like a leper. How would anyone like me enough to be okay with this awful disease?! Without even being able to kiss them? I am mourning the loss of all romantic functions.

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Hey there! Certainly no need to feel like a leper. You just have a skin condition that has inherited a lot of unfortunate stigma. Don't let the stigma get the best of you. You're stronger than that, I promise.


Here, read this article I wrote that speaks to your question:



Watch this video I made summarizing the facts:


The more you can arm yourself with the facts, the less fertile ground you give for the fear to take hold. This isn't the end of all romantic functions for you. This is simply asking you to go deeper ...

Note: This is for informational purposes only. This information does not constitute medical advice or diagnosis.
I'm not a medical professional, so please take this as friendly peer support. 

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