Not sure how to handle this

[Jea54]

I had sex with a woman 5 weeks ago. About 2-3 days after I didn't feel well. I brushed it off as a cold or flu. About 2 weeks later I lost partial hearing in my right ear. I've gone to the doctor and the first test came back negative, it's only been 3 weeks from the exposure.

I'm pretty sure it's going to come back as genital herpes. I can't believe how depressed I've been. I'm not sure how to handle this. I haven't been diagnosed yet, but it's definitely coming. I've texted and called the woman several times and she won't get back to me.

I know I haven't been diagnosed yet, if I'm out of line coming to you guys for advice, im sorry. My mind is taking over. But nobody knows your own body like you do. I'm seeing the Dr. Again today and the ent tomorrow.

I wish you all the best, thank you for any thoughts and motivation.