new guy and his ex

[colorado1961]

I recently found out im infected hsv 1 virus, how can that be? well, my girl decicded one day she didnt love me anymore after 6yrs together and 1 yr of being engaged . well after moving out of her place I had to totally remove her from my life as far as account we shared, then I found a complete list of prescription drugs she was on , one of them Famciclovir was on that list, now keep in mind Herpes never even crossed my mind but I looked it up and found its to control the herpes virus breakout, I felt sick ! I went to get a full panel screen done and sure enough I was infected hsv 1 and shes been taking this drug for over one year, and never told me! then I found out shes has been unfaithful to me the whole time we were together and ive never cheated nor has it crossed my mind..im lost, angry, and feel dirty and thoughts of my love life being over lingers in my mind and need to research all this. they keep telling me it no big deal, is that so?