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a man has had at least 100 sexual partners, how likely is he to have hsv 2 ? Has not been tested and making a lot of excuses. Statistically speaking, I cannot fathom that he does have hsv 2. He has admittedly had a lot of usafe and indiscriminate sex. Just want to poll for your responses. Maybe I can move on knowing he has it without him actually getting tested. 

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He maybe scared of the results or may already know and maybe he thinks because he has no symptoms he doesn’t have it or doesn’t need to get tested. Truth is I don’t know who or when I got H.... I’ve made peace with the fact that I will never know. It doesn’t matter at this point. Won’t change anything. I have to focus on me and my health. 

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3 hours ago, _a_rayofsunshine_ said:

It’s highly likely. According to CDC 80% of Americans have some form of herpes. If he’s that reckless with his life, don’t even get involved with him. As scary as the idea of getting a negative result is, it doesn’t help the person or their partners by not testing. That’s just foolish to me. 

I have been diagnosed and he is one of two possible people that could have infected me. I think it was likely him, based on sexual history. Mine was not a latent infection, it was a primary outbreak, and it took some time for the antibodies to show up. He and I are definitely done...not necessarily because of the herpes. But his excuses as to not getting tested. He said he is going Monday to get tested, I think he knows (based on his numbers) that he is positive and does not want it to be official. I asked him, to do it for me, because I want to know. He said he owed me at least that much. I just think that with 100 people, there just can be now way he is negative. 

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