HELP!!!

[crookshankshey]

Last night after engaging in mutual masturnation with my partner, I came home to discover a very small sore I had somehow missed (tiny and no painful previous) despite checking. 

 

I know mutual masturbation is considered very low risk but how does this change with an active sore? The sore is at the top near my clitoris and he rarely touched that area (though I did) but touched himself after fingering me. I’m worried that lubrication/secretion spread the virus from the sore and was transmitted from his hands to his penis. How long is the virus alive? Does there near to be abrasions on his foreskin/shaft to transmit it? Help!!!

[TequilaGirl]

I've read that it's ok to masturbate while you have an outbreak (best using some latex gloves or wash your hands immediately after touching the area with the sores) but have to be very careful to not touch areas/genitals of your bodies.