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Well perfect...

The man I have always wanted finally came into my life explaining to me how much he has liked me, and has always imagined being with me... It made me smile from ear to ear hearing the words coming out of his mouth of how great he thinks I am. Things I have always been wanting to hear. 

Then I remember what is going on in my life right now... How diseased I am, how gross I feel. How scared I am too tell him my secrets. I hate this. Why couldn't this have happened between us 10 years ago when we first met. 

I want him so bad. But I don't want to bring this on him. 

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I can't. It's not just that.. it's the fact that I don't want to hurt him... I have been so exhausted since catching this thing... I am fatigued everyday. Just what this does to me, I don't want to put it on someone else... Esp not someone I love. 

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Don't feel low about yourself. Yes we all are carrying this virus for which there is no solution and most likely there will be none. But then there are couples where one is negative. The risk is always there. But still I will say it's worth giving a try. We all are not that lucky where love comes and knocks our door. 

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I literally just found out late last week that I have herpes. My girlfriend had been visiting and while she was here we booked some amazing travel for later this year. I was so nervous to tell her, but when I did yesterday afternoon it was so much better! She could tell something was going on in the days leading up and so when I came clean, she was relieved, because she thought that I was going to break up with her. I am guessing that your loved one can sense that something is going on and if your relationship has a chance, it is going to be because you have told him. If someone gets this news and reacts poorly, then that is not someone to be with imo. Think about how you would react if he told you. I would have so much empathy if the situation would have been reversed. Good luck!

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This is how I feel. I’ll never be able to live a normal life. It saddens me and I finally found the love of my life.... I wonder why did this have to happen to me. 

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I feel the same way, I haven't met anyone yet and too scared to try. I've read a bunch of disclosure stories on here and they are really inspiring! I think you should check those out. 

 

If you do disclose please let us know how it goes! We're here for you and cheering you on.

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