[How come my partner has tested negative.]

Having a very hard time with this. I don't think I can live with this much longer. 

[How come my partner has tested negative.]

Yes I tested positive.  Found out in May but think I started having other symptoms that would make since now. 

[How come my partner has tested negative.]

Been with partner for 3 years. He said test came back igg hsv1 0.35 and hsv2 0.53. We always had unprotected sex. He has lupus and take hydrochloriquin when he remembers. I don't understand how he is negative. Symptoms were almost a year before confirmed positive for me. 

[Confirmed diagnosis in May with no info given]

Had discharge one morning (yellowish) got into Dr. Two hours later ran test for sr's and a ua. It came back high WBC. Clean on everything. Couple days later I had swollen glands, diareah, fever and what I thought was sores from whipping so much, that lasted 2 days. Then for weeks I felt bloated and very hard to urinate, burning pain. Then got a sore on my libia and another right under it another. Painful. By the time I got into Dr a week later sores gone, blood test Igg ab  came back hsv1 0.31 and hsv2 9.92. DNA pct not detected for either. Dr said I was exposed but until a sore gets tested I don't have herpes. The third test can back detected hsv2. Gave me resalts over phone and asked where to call antivirals in to. I almost had a stroke and could to crying for days. Refused meds and hung up on nurse . No info given!!! Didn't know you can have inner vaginal ob. Was the discharge and sickness herpes ?