[Just found out I have herpes]

Just found out I have herpes...I have a pit in my stomach. 

I have so many questions...

Can you get/give it even when you aren’t  having an outbreak? 

Do I need to take medication even if I don’t have an outbreak? 

Can you give or receive oral sex if you have it? 

Is hair loss a problem if you take the medication? If so, what supplements do you take to help prevent that? 

I didn’t notice any lesions till sunday and was intimate with someone I am dating on Sat. Are the chances of them contracting it 100%? 

 

Thank you to to anyone who can offer answers and support. My head is in whirlwind.