[I'm so lost and in so much pain]

Thank you all for the support. My outbreak and pain lasted 11 whole days. It was terrible, but it did pass. Lidocaine, spray bottle, warm baths, and sleep is what got me through 

[HSV2 sex without condom / disclosure]

I would tell him. The person I was seeing didnt tell me. I'm just having my first ob and I've been admitted to the hospital due to my body's reaction to the virus. I wish he would have told me when we started sleeping together as my medical team and I spent 3 days trying to figure out why I've had a 103 fever and vomiting...turns out I contracted herpes.

[I'm so lost and in so much pain]

I had a new sexual partner not even a week ago. We did not use a condom. Two days after having sex I had an STD screening as I always do after having a new partner. Everything checked out. The following day I had itching and discomfort so I went in to see if I had bacterial vaginosis or a yeast infection. Both were negative. The next day I had a fever of 102.6. My doctor was worried I had PID. I had a vaginal ultrasound and everything looked good. However after all of these exams I was soooooooo irritated and inflamed. Urinating killed. Today again I woke up with fever and very swollen and weird looking labia with a bumpy like texture but no actual sores. Dr said it may be herpes. I took a blood test today but know nothing. I died from the suggestion of herpes and I'm in denial. However the pain I have now in general and especially when I urinate is unbearable. The last two times I peed I threw up from the pain. I am on an antibiotic and lidocaine but theres no relief. I'm scared, confused, sick and in so much pain.