[Feeling pretty scared]

I felt the same way when I found out it 2009. Don't worry he is only rejecting the herpes and not you! You are a wonderful woman and there are plenty of men out there who will accept you for you! Just remember to stay positive and keep it moving! :)

[So there's this guy...need some advice :)]

Thank you seafoam19 for the suggestio. I will try it out and see what happens. Keeping my fingers crossed :)

[So there's this guy...need some advice :)]

Hey everyone! So a little background about me: I was diagnosed with genital herpes in 2009 and of course at first I was drives rated and didn't even know whatcit was when I found out about it. Over the past few years I have done tons and tons of research and I have found ways to cope and deal with having genitsl herpes. It's going well that it's become something I hardly ever think about that I almost forget they I even have it! Anywho. So recently I have been talking to someone for a couple of months and he is great and gives me alot of encouragement about everything. Just a few days ago I finally disclosed him and told him that I had genital herpes to him in a positive way. So once I told him he said that there was a deep dark secret he said that he would tell me about and until this day he will not tell me yet at all. We do plan to become intimate with each other but I wish I can find a way to ask him what his secret is because I feel like shit especially after I told him something that is health related. Any suggestions in what I may be able to do? Thanks. :)