[How do I go about to tell my girlfriend I may have herpes]

Thank you so much for your kind words Flower Teacher. Yes, you are right. I can’t control anybody’s reaction. Thanks for the resource. I will read it. Thats a good idea, to write her a letter. I will wait for the appropriate time to send it to her. Thank you so much for your support. There is no one I can talk to and having you relajad to me and write me is so soothing and appreciate it so much. Take care. 

[How do I go about to tell my girlfriend I may have herpes]

Thanks. I talked yesterday with my partner. She was very sad and frustrated. She just kept asking with how many woman I have had sexual relationships before being with her. I told her it could be one or many, it doesn’t matter, but she kept asking. And she kept saying why I didn’t tell her before. She cried and I tried to hug her but she swept my arm away. She told me to not sleep beside her , So I slept on the couch . She texted me today that she wants me to send her the lab results and that I keep sleeping apart from her and that once she sees the lab results she will make her decision. I guess if the results come positive she will end the relationship. 

[How do I go about to tell my girlfriend I may have herpes]

Thank you Flower Teacher. I didn’t think about that, about dating I had a rash. Going to do that. Didn’t think either that it is better to say it now than to tell her once the results come in. The doctor did not do any swab. In fact I thought she was going to have a look , I just gave a description. I’m going to have a blood work and urine samples tomorrow. 

[How do I go about to tell my girlfriend I may have herpes]

Thanks so much for your words Dan. It gives me strength and courage to talk with her. 

[How do I go about to tell my girlfriend I may have herpes]

For various months now, I have a sort of itch and tingling sensation, and blisters and red colored from time to time. Wasn’t sure what it was but continued normally. A few months after my concern grew I thought about going to the doctor but didn’t. At last I went to the doctor today and she told me it could be herpes so I’m going to the labs tomorrow. I remember that my ex-wife at one certain time told me she had herpes, and truly I forgot to tell my current girlfriend. The reason being I didn’t look for information and got tested at that moment in time and was negative. Its been 10 years or maybe more.  My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and now I’m thinking about telling her what is happening and I’m afraid of her reaction, how this will affect us and our sex life. She will also question me why I did not do something earlier and why I did not tell her. I feel so anxious and nervous and thinking about how angry my girlfriend will be. I don’t have a dx yet but I believe I need to tell her but I am afraid. We have had a lot of ups and downs, and recently a lot of downs. I feel this will affect our relationship. If I am diagnosed with herpes and my girlfriend gets tested and has herpes also, I think she will never forgive me. Any suggestions?