[Vagina not the same now]

Thank you for recommending this - I’m now following Nicole Sachs - fantastic- all makes a lot sense. 

[New partner has herpes - love some nitty gritty advice]

Thank you for your response…now when you say getting tested in a general STI panel - I can understand that for me, but would you elaborate what this means for him? Wouldn’t he be positive regardless or are there levels of it?

I want to be as intimate and imaginative as possible and at the same time be safe. 

[New partner has herpes - love some nitty gritty advice]

He has HSV-2. Apologies for not being clearer. 

[New partner has herpes - love some nitty gritty advice]

I have recently met a guy I knew and fancied many years ago. On our 2nd date he revealed he got herpes 30 years ago. Obviously spun me out a bit. He said he hasn’t had an ob in years. In that time I imagine he’s had a few partners including getting married and having 2 children. That relationship is over. Anyway I really like him and have been getting myself up to speed, but can’t seem to find the info I’m after. 
I need specifics on what we can and can’t do sexwise. Do I wash my hands after touching his penis (bowl of soapy water near the bed?😳)

- yes I fully intend to have some questions ready - any that I should ask? I want to be imaginatively intimate as possible for him and me to be comfortable and for me not to get herpes. 
don’t hesitate- lay it all out for me.